Love does not have to be expressed through sex or romance.
| Website | azejournal.com |
| Patreon | https://www.patreon.com/asexualjournal |
| Website | azejournal.com |
| Patreon | https://www.patreon.com/asexualjournal |
Somewhere along the way, the idea that sex is meaningful got tied up with the idea that sex is a way to express the worth you find in another person.
by Heidi Samuelson
http://theasexual.com/article/2018/4/1/heidi-samuelson-meaningless-sex
I myself am learning not to minimize
When harm is called out, to resist the urge to justify
Language like “just friends” may be normalized
“Platonic bonds are lesser” isn’t true, yet is often implied.
by Emily Karp
http://theasexual.com/article/2018/9/28/no-just-about-it
Deep down I love being demisexual, but openly I only feel confident in the spaces I am welcome in or when I don’t feel like I’m a complicated math problem no one can seem to figure out; when asexuality is a widely known variable and I don’t have to spend years trying to define myself five hundred times before I give up...
by Courtney Boucher
http://theasexual.com/article/2018/9/28/yes-i-am-queer-but-i-am-also-demisexual
Detaching yourself from the allosexual relationship you pictured in your mind for so long is not easy, but it’s the best thing to do. Suddenly everything feels lighter. You no longer feel the urge to be someone you can’t be.
by Juste Phi
http://theasexual.com/article/2018/9/13/the-importance-of-not-drowning