@pie@disarray i guess? i basically felt that way about my last relationship. still do i guess. and when it ended i was just kinda like "yeah, this is for the best, i'm not fit for purpose"
@pie@disarray those aren't the only two options... if relationships are built on good foundations of communication (i know this is cliche but it's true ime) it's not hard to develop mutual understanding that things need to end while there's still good left in it
@disarray most of my relationships end pretty peacefully but that's sp. because i'm extremely dysfunctional and hard to be around and i know that and am pretty much always prepared for that to end things at any point