Everyone Deserves Nice Things

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Scarcity is a myth, y’all

(Header image is by Leonora Carrington; profile image is by Remedios Varo)

Pronounsshe/her
MottoQuia omnis stercore bonum
(Which is pretty hilarious, since both of my partners are cisgendered men.)
This is only half a joke, it’s really that cismen are just hot but I have zero patience for their bullshit anymore
How Stardew Valley made me realize I am bisexual but homoromantic in this essay I will

looking to contact string quartets based in Brussels, Belgium for an event on March 26. if you happen to know any ensembles I would love to get in touch with them.  

#stringquartet #brussels #gig

It’s always the people who loudly complain about how this is a made-up holiday* and that we shouldn’t need a specific day to show our partners we love them who don’t actually do it on any day.

*all holidays are made up, Kevin

it is my first rodeo
please be patient, i just learned what a horse is

I just got an email from the college where I went to graduate school, which is in New York with the subject line "Statement by [college president] on Tyre Nichols"

What does this have to do with the school? I'm alumni-- I don't need time away from class for grieving and processing. The school's president's thoughts on Nichols's murder won't end extralegal execution, and are centering absolutely the wrong voice on this

If you're out wandering today, and happen to see a cackling twig witch riding a majestic bear-centaur through the misty woods, please tell my grandmother that her lunch is getting cold.
Thanks!

Like, oh, your love language is physical touch? What happens when your partner is a survivor of abuse and struggles with touch? Or has sensory processing issues and can only take so much physical affection before they’re neurologically overwhelmed?

Acts of service? Well, I hope your partner isn’t in the gig economy hustling to make ends meet.

When we assume that knowing = ability, then the next step is knowing and not doing = intentionally refusing to love you.

I truly never want to see some relationship advice that talks about learning each other’s love languages as a path to reconciling problems ever again.

The idea that all a partner need do is figure out how you like to receive affection and then they will not only be able to do it but do it consistently and easily is probably ruining more relationships than it’s helping.