Lovely TikTok about adult friendship: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT82XLy7w/
It helped me realize why I've come to loathe the word "adventure." It's because it's become a rigid, commoditized idea. There's no play in it when it becomes a lifestyle brand. Not to say that repping the idea is bad, but the sheer number of things I can buy that say, "I do adventures," cheapens something meaningful. Something that naturally costs nothing more than your time and creativity.
Here is a statement from Kolektiva regarding Facebook ("Meta") soon launching a new app ("Threads" or "Project92") which will reportedly use ActivityPub and interoperate or federate with parts of the Fediverse.
Kolektiva was founded as a direct result of anarchist and antifascist projects being kicked off of Facebook in 2020. Our entire "raison d'etre" is to provide an independent autonomous alternative to corporate social media. We exist in opposition to Facebook and their ilk. We have no interest in federating with a network operated and controlled by Meta, even if it becomes technically possible.
Meta has shown its values and actions are not just incompatible with our world view but openly hostile towards it. Whereas we create a world based on mutual aid and voluntary cooperation Meta necessitates conflict and systems of domination in order to profit.
Kolektiva.social will not federate with whatever Meta's future presence on the Fediverse looks like. We will continue to strive towards a larger, more decentralized and anarchist Fediverse. We choose our autonomy and trust in the social experiment / counter culture we are co-creating with others who do not wield such abhorrent systems of power over us.
"In Buffalo, with professional rescuers slow to arrive, and shelters often unreachable, residents improvised. A restaurant became a hotel, bunking stranded people atop the bar. Doctors and nurses interrupted Christmas celebrations to make house calls. A couple took in a busload of Korean tourists who cooked Christmas Eve dinner. A tow-truck driver helped deliver lifesaving medicine.
Blizzard Facebook groups popped up overnight, with stranded residents begging for help. More than one family sought out a midwife to coach a pregnant woman through labor. Christopher Pulinski put out a call for help reuniting with his 17-year-old son, stuck home alone in the neighborhood of Elmwood Village. A stranger with a snowmobile replied that he was on his way.
Leon Horace Miller, 52, of Buffalo, transformed his landscaping and snow plow company into a rescue operation. By late afternoon on Christmas Day he had dislodged 14 people from snow banks or moved them out of unheated homes that had lost power. “It’s been nonstop since Friday,” Mr. Miller said. “Everyone knows I have big trucks.”
Healthcare workers posted their locations and phone numbers online in hopes that those in need nearby would find them. At 2 a.m. on Sunday, Tamara Joy Rettino, an alternative medicine doctor, fielded a call from a mother whose asthmatic child was struggling to breathe.
Neighbors and local businesses donated supplies, an outpouring of support which made the mood, despite the storm, “ecstatic,” he said."
- Reports on mutual aid in #Buffalo, #NewYork in the face of a massive storm from the New York Times
Also, its interesting that the media will champion these forms of mutual aid that go somewhat outside of property relations: people utilizing a building for housing, and the sharing of skills, resources, and supplies, but when it comes to the 'looting' of corporate stores; the looting of commodities from stores that have insurance and will most likely loose food items due to the storm regardless, there is vast hand ringing and condemnation.
We should cheer on mutual aid just as we cheer on people organizing outside of market and property relations during disasters, just as we should support those who do so amidst the disaster of everyday life in capitalist society.
“What’s finally sunk in with many people is that we have parking minimums and yet housing maximums, which means we have too many cars and too little housing. We have things the wrong way around."
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2022/dec/26/us-cities-parking-lots-climate-walkability