Mike the Therapist

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A Polymath, specializing in trauma and sex therapy using IFS and EMDR. LGBTQ ally. Poly and BDSM friendly. NSFW sometimes.
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One of the deepest treatises into the excitement and danger of romance is Taylor Swift's "I Knew You Were Trouble".

The joy at discovering a new love interest regularly outweighs our need to be safe.

For a time.

These two needs will often be at war with each other.

#TaylorSwift
#romance
#IKnewYouWereTrouble

CW: Too much truth.

Since the early 1990s, as I started to look into the so-called "Five Love Languages" I had an immediate distaste for them. This feeling has grown over time.

So I decided to do a detailed analysis of them. They are an inaccurate and harmful list. in this article, I explain why:

https://mikeinsac.com/2022/11/16/move-past-the-5-love-languages/

Move Past the 5 Love Languages

Review of Chapman's "Five Love Languages".

Listen Carefully

I can’t remember the caption to this one.

Was it:

“Red Hot Chili Peppers Rule”

Or

“Combine Harvesters Get the Job Done”

I love this. Self love and care is so important. We are our own best works of art. 💖

#Love
#SelfLove
#Art

Alex Jones, Matt Walsh, Laura Ingraham, etc.
All producing heated farts. Nothing much more.

From 10 Yrs ago:

"My son found an app for his phone that tells you the distance to the nearest person selling Girl Scout cookies. He said the nearest person is 53 miles away. His next question was "Can I borrow your car?"

He claims the request is unrelated to the cookies. I wonder."

My favorite out of context line from a tv show:

“I love the passion you are showing for this meaningless event.”

I feel that so many times on social media…and it is really encouraging in a backhanded way.

There is no “justice” system.

Today, Trump Org CFO Weisselberg is being sentenced to five months jail.

On a five month sentence, he'll serve approximately 100 days.

As a public defender in Manhattan, I represented a man who was sentenced to 3-6 years (and will serve 1500+ days) for stealing a jacket.