Prismatica ⚧

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Bit of a dorky trans woman.
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Whee! Have a court date for for my name change. Actually faster than I thought.

They just had a job interview for a possible promotion, but think they (L) tanked the interview.

(L) is up against two other people, one is from another department and doesn't have much of a shot. The other is someone relatively new that (L) was on the hiring committee for. That one is a a bit of a brown noser and is better at interviews.

(L) has more experience and better qualifications, 100%. On paper there wouldn't even be a question of who would get the promotion. But the way it works is that your qualifications just get you the interview, and the interviews are scored. So it's very possible that a poor interview versus a great interview might cost you that job.

I don't know how bad (L) did, honestly. But I do know that they are very depressed and hate their current position. They just got into it last year, but are desperate to get out of it.

Alternative to cheering (L) up: Help me find a job posting somewhere else? Biology/genetics anywhere trans friendly.

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You have got to be kidding me. Roads were just starting to look clear enough for me to take my car out of 4 wheel drive. We're getting another 6 inches of snow tonight.

Finally getting my first dose of the Pfizer vaccine today. And do I have the state government to thank for that? Nope. The native corporation had extra and is allowing qualified non-native residents to schedule and come in.

Meanwhile, some people are refusing to get the vaccine altogether, or aren't willing to get two shots. FFS, it's getting poked in the arm twice. Something you should have been doing regularly for the flu and keeping your other vaccines up to date. (like tetanus)

At least some of those people will get the inferior J&J vaccine, because it's just one shot. But I suspect that most of them won't even get that. The overlap of anti-mask/anti-vax/essential oils cure everything people is near 100% here.

JFC. Was looking at the weather forecast. Getting even more snow this week. I am so ready for winter weather to be done.

(Also waking up to -17C temps can stop now. Please. Really. I mean it. I don't want to have to keep waking up early to go plug in the block heater.)

Choose a whole number from 1 to 50. Hold it in your mind. Ready? Great. Now open the post replies. 🔁​

(boosts please) informal selection biased masto poll time  

in the following adhd is defined as: you have been diagnosed with adhd, you have self-diagnosed, or you fit the typical screening criteria (if you're not sure please go over the symptoms and see if you are affected by many of the symptoms in at least 2 different settings)

hacker is defined as: you enjoy writing code, learning about computing topics, or finding novel ways to interact with computer systems; and do it as a hobby, for fun, or as a volunteer

pick the best description of yourself

adhd, hacker
43.2%
adhd, not hacker
15%
not adhd, hacker
27.4%
not adhd, not hacker
14.4%
Poll ended at .

I'm so tired of the meta.

No, pedophiles or fascists or nazis are absolutely not allowed to remain on this instance. They all should be suspended immediately.

But just saying "X is a pedophile" or "X is a nazi" does not make X a pedophile or a nazi.

If I receive a bunch of name-calling reports saying "X is pedo, suspend them at once, you nazi piece of shit" and do not act on them, it is not because this instance is welcome to pedophiles (it is not). It is because I do not think X is a pedophile (and also because calling me names does not make your argument any more compelling).

And it would require a bit more to convince me they're a pedophile than just posting taken-out-of-context screenshots of their controversial take on child autonomy, made two months ago on another instance - take that was posted from the perspective of children, and for which they already apologized.

Just stop dogpiling for once. Don't make it your life goal to expel this person from fedi for that one old take. Don't make it your life goal to drive them to suicide.

Maybe try checking the context of these screenshots.
Maybe try not automatically interpreting that take in bad faith.
Maybe try to think what would your reaction be if it was posted by someone just a couple of years younger, before their 18th birthday.