A good suggestion, but probably not something either of us would enjoy. We’re both very monogamous in all senses of the word. Thank you for the kind words, though!
That last part is especially helpful, thank you.
We’ve talked about it before, and she’s told me that I am the best sexual partner she has ever had. To her, she is very satisfied. I’m very giving in bed (it helps I enjoy going down), and foreplay is always a long part of it. Sometimes hours before we actually have sex. The issue is that I am not satisfied, and she is. I have never once reached orgasm with her, as she finds PIV sex painful due to my size and is generally not a giving partner. She has given me oral maybe 4 times total in 6 months. So I guess now that I think about it, it’s not just frequency but sexual satisfaction during the act as well, on my end.
Well, it has been like this since the beginning, and we’re both generally happy with stress-free lives. Easy, well-paying jobs, good family lives, etc. We met at work and I’m still very informed as to what happens there, and she has the absolute cushiest job on this planet, so definitely not work related. It might just be a different drive, unfortunately.
Well, I think it’s probably a little more than just sex drive, but that is a large part of it. It’s a once every 3 weeks vs. multiple times a week or more difference, which is hard for me. I guess you’re right. Just need to rip off the band-aid. Ugh.
How do I (27M) break up with my girlfriend (39F) of 6 months when she did nothing wrong?
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How do I (27M) break up with my girlfriend (39F) of 6 months when she did nothing wrong? - Lemmy.world
Even despite the age gap, this was the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been
in. It was based on mutual respect, trust, communication, and an understanding
of each other’s time and goals. I really like her as a person – she’s wonderful.
But I also think we’re just not the right fit for each other romantically or
sexually, and I’ve slowly begun to realize this over the last few weeks. A
couple of nights ago, I broached the subject and mentioned our sex drives were
not super aligned. Mine is much higher than hers, and we both acknowledged
neither one of us expected the other to change nor did we pretend it was even
possible. She took it very hard, though, and spent about 2 hours crying on my
couch while we talked. We didn’t officially break up, and I know she wants to
continue trying. I think she believes I am the one for her, and while she is a
wonderful person, she just isn’t the right one for me specifically. How should I
go about doing this? I had been hoping the conversation would have led us to
that conclusion, but I couldn’t find the guts to end it then, especially because
we went from joking around and laughing together than exact night like nothing
was wrong to her crying in my arms on the couch. I feel like I’m setting her up
for heartbreak, but I know it’s not fair to either of us to continue in
something that I am not long-term invested in.
This is also the company that charges you to cancel your membership. Like, 60 bucks or something, sometimes more, to stop using their product. Horrible company. Bloatware, laggy software anyways.
