I’m another person who uses VR mostly for VRChat. I hang with friends, co-host a weekly movie night, and run/maintain The Great Pug.
There’s a thing common to a lot of VRChat users in how they only play VRChat. It’s what VR is.
I have the original Beyond, and stick to PCVR. It’s here all the cooled club spaces are too.
I also have a Vision Pro. And I use that mainly for watching movies and shows, and socializing with a close friend.
Right now, I’m looking forward to the day where VR feels less unfinished and janky. It surprises me just how Janky VR still is. And the jank is still present for a wide variety of reasons.
This is because they include stuff like Roblox in the definition of Metaverse.
If we kept it to SocialVR titles, the demographics would shift to something more balanced, afaik. VRC bans people under 13 when they are discovered/reported.