| pronoms | she/they |
| lang | fr, en |
| fetlife | https://fetlife.com/users/19376119 |
| where | Toulouse |
I want to remind everyone that not having access to HRT, or not transitioning, or not "being diagnosed" among a myriad of other things don't make you "less trans".
You belong here just as much as I do, as someone which cannot transition, is too poor to afford HRT - or go the long way through therapy - didn't ever "got diagnosed"
You belong here.
He~y! I’m getting ready for our date, what do you think of my outfit? You don’t mind going out with a catgirl, right? 😽
I had a very interesting conversation with my therapist, she talked to me about what's called the "high expectations" scheme, and it seems that it has poisoned every corner of my life: work, relations, self, even the way my creativity works.
tactics to just counter the scheme
- self-isolation to avoid critics
- self-deprecation to compensate
- high pressure to achieve things
just reinforce the scheme.
oh dear there's work ahead, but I guess I know where to start and it feels good.
Cassandrich
Alexia 
Rina Volpina 🦊🔞
LimeDye After Dark