Rain 🌦️

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I probably won't be active here any more. I'm grateful for my time here. Y'all helped me rediscover my gender and sexuality, taught me so much, and I'd like to think I even made some friends. I'm sad to leave, but checking in became complusive. I can't seem to use social media in a healthy way so I quit.

I'll miss many of you, and I'd love to keep in touch. If you're seeing this, you probably came looking for me, so if you want to stay connected, please DM me. I'd love to hear from you.

💜

:heart_trans: gender :heart_trans::heart_nb: queer :heart_nb:
:heart_bi: bi :heart_bi::heart_ace: gray-ace??? :heart_ace:
:she_her: she/her :she_her:or :they_them: they/them :they_them:
25years old
Rain 🌦️May 15, 2021
matipaMay 14, 2021

I wrote:
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for( ; *c & ((c-a)<1024; c++);

Took me half an hour to realize my mistake...

Rain 🌦️Sep 25, 2020
Show threadim on efdn.club nowSep 25, 2020
first!! don't fucking try and figure that shit out on ur own homie?? /talk/ with ur community and directly to people u support about what makes them /personally/ feel better. get their consent to do stuff for them. learn what types of responses are triggering or aggravating 2 them. there is no one size fits all answer everyone has different comforts and needs
Rain 🌦️Sep 25, 2020
Show threadim on efdn.club nowSep 24, 2020

ok here's a list of common (shitty) ways people respond to mh stuff and how they actual affect the person in question:

what you say: you aren't bad!! (you aren't broken, you're such a good person, etc)
things they will hear:
-i've tricked you into thinking i'm good, making me worse
-so there's no reason for me to be feeling this bad stuff??
-you aren't listening to me (i just explained how i did bad stuff)

Rain 🌦️Sep 25, 2020
im on efdn.club nowSep 24, 2020
our community responses to our peers mental health crises range from "not helpful" to "actively damaging" and it's so rare for people to critically analyze it i think because a lot of us go through the same stuff so the assumption is that, having similar experiences, of course we're responding in the best way we can. but actually we're just like, repeating the ways we were /taught/ to respond to mh crises and those ways are Bad
Rain 🌦️Sep 24, 2020
gamer juice but it's just fruit juiceSep 24, 2020
the cis should start expressing their gender without gendered terms. as a bit and as an exercise in gender exploration. I think they'd just be a lot more chill if they felt comfortable describing their gender as a hard rock album at sunset after a really sweaty run.
Rain 🌦️Sep 24, 2020
Mama Wati[Imani]🏴⚧Sep 24, 2020
lets spread the idea to younger generations that the reasons Jesus was nailed to the cross is that the Romans needed to put cold Iron in him to keep him from escaping.
Rain 🌦️Sep 24, 2020
MaschaSep 24, 2020

Little fluff ball needs your help!

This is Cassiopeia, former street cat, currently waiting in quarantine in Ukraine to be transported to me and my Mia Cat to Berlin, Germany. If you or anyone you know is traveling some time soon from Ukraine to Germany (Berlin/Brandenburg area) and would be willing to transport her, we would be forever grateful! She is ready to go, has all papers & vaccinations but travel right now is difficult.

(Posting this again with pic because you all love cat pics)

Rain 🌦️Sep 24, 2020
Amelia Sep 24, 2020
He is holding his TAIL between his PAWS
Rain 🌦️Sep 24, 2020
alarmingly large glaceon girl 🍓Sep 24, 2020

once saw an antivaxxer suggest that instead of vaccines we just create an inert version of the virus and use that to let our bodies train to fight off the real thing

you know what? sure. let's try that.

Rain 🌦️Sep 24, 2020
@gentlerdarknesses ouch I feel called out