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Pan/Demi/Furry/Artistic/Cider Geek with Red Hair. Owner of Slightlyfurry. ❤️ Aevin & Michael Dragonson. I talk about code, food, drinks, and equality in tech.
Bloghttps://martinisoftware.com
Companyhttps://slightlyfurry.com
SpeciesFox
PronounsHe/Him

Tired of the corporate controlled *Romantic-Industrial Complex* and its boring, mass produced schlock? Get something naughty, subversive and lovingly crafted by your friends and neighbors. Or just come say hi and enjoy a drink!

Remember, darlings, our pleasure is protest.

Dandyland Pink Party
Queer erotic art and gift market
Feb. 8, 2-8 pm
Boxers HK
735 9th Ave., NYC

#NYC #GayArt #Valentines

On a more positive note. I’m blown away by the impact of having our own space. I’ve clearly put a small dent in the universe and made something important to many. For those who send me thank you comments and give me hugs at the bar. That is keeping me going and realizing this insane investment might just work out in the end. I’m looking forward to living out my days as an owner hanging out at the bar well into my 50s hearing about new connections getting made there.
Side note. I was pretty disappointed in so called “friends” last week who hit me up for free ciders in what should be my time off. I’m trying not to take it personally that you’d rather use me for free shit than be a friend at a time when I’m trying not to remind myself about all the debt I’m in and responsibilities I have running this thing.

Retail business owner life is pulling 12-16 hour shifts for 6 to sometimes 7 days a week because you haven’t hit revenue targets high enough yet to justify the labor costs of replacing the 5 or 6 jobs you currently do at the same time. Finding others to share that burden without asking for significant financial returns has been unsuccessful.

If you wonder why I’m burnt out and guarded about my mental health and time. That’s a taste of what it takes to build a brand and grow it in my industry as a career change, not a side project. I don’t get to have fun yet. Not for years.

FWA last week was insanity. I feel like a broken fox when I’m overwhelmed by large crowds like that. Glad I got to briefly see and hug so many people I haven’t seen in years. Bummed I got to spend so little time catching up, which is one of my favorite things to do at cons. For those who did find time to catch up with me, I very much appreciate it. ❤️
Who called it “monogamous” and not “low poly”

Many say I’m crazy for full fursuiting in Atlanta. Did 8 hours yesterday and didn’t even notice how long it had been by the time I got out of suit. When I look like Martini, that is my mental happy place. I smile more, I feel beautiful, and my anxiety melts away. If I could become him one day I’d be a happy fox.

📸: Corporal

That same trick works for software developers who need a domain that isn’t encumbered by any other networking related attachments. Good for test cases too!

Pro tip for the folks jumping on wifi where you need to log in or click a button to agree to terms and conditions.

Once connected, type in “example.com” in your browser and it’ll auto redirect you no matter what.

“example.com” is a reserved domain which is (mostly) respected by networking gear to gently direct you to whatever capture portal needs you to sign in. Apple devices try to detect this redirect automatically via a similar method. Android devices do too.

Join me for a cocktail as I start my vacation? Had to do the traditional Cosmo at the Delta lounge. Even at 8am, because I’m an adult on vacation now. Glad I’m getting a big break from running the cidery. Traveling to Atlanta for @FWA which is a massive event these days. Cheers! 🍸

SEA🛫ATL