With every new experience our brain's tendrils grow. Everyone has different experiences, so everyone has a different brain. We are each of us, unique!
"The green reed which bends in the wind is stronger than the mighty oak which breaks in a storm." - Confucious
There are a lot of problems. If I let myself get outraged by all of them, I would be dizzy. Ukraine is one of these problems. With all the problems that affect us personally do we really need to add Ukraine? Ukraine used to be in Russia. They speak Russian. Is it really worth risking blowing up the world but things like patriotism or national identity which are just about the go anyway? Let Putin have the regions he wants and give the money we would give them to feed ourselves!