i mostly talk high to women to make myself appear non threatening which is where that high female range is used, but it's only ended up in me being misgendered a lot and that's getting increasingly more unsafe, so trying to clamp down on my talking voice range bc im sick of thisssss

(i got in trouble at school by women teachers who would assert that i was giving them shit when no, i was just talking to them like a dude, IN MY NATURAL VOICE, which is offensive to them bc its unladylike, and bc they didnt want to feel like a man was insulting them. so i have hangups over this)