@JoshuaHolland a (nice, no, really) friend told me he wanted to be able to say stuff and think about a response and maybe apologise, not be extra careful all the time. Regardless of the larger debate, I do get his point and feel his frustration. So, I’m trying to act my age, be more genX and say “bollocks to that” a bit more. But, you know, all the while being all for wokeness in general, since it clearly beats the alternative.