Thanks for the alt text! @Ninji

Courage! I don't know how to help you, but virtual hugs if you want! @puptempo.bsky.social

A cage with holes can be washed every day including what's protected inside. A long closed tube is not a good idea for long term. You'll probably have some hard times to deal with it. Beginning with a whole month is a very high objective. And a last tip: I use vaseline inside the ring to avoid irritation. Good luck for your first locktober! (And yes, when you find what you want, it's addictive. I closed my cage last locktober, and my key holder opens it only for service purpose). @Tylers_quest

Your first cage will not be good. If you have any pain with it, it's not a good one for you. But everybody is different. To start, the better is to have a kit with different sizes of ring, to try it. And the first times, you'll set instinctively a too large ring. Only experience tells you what you need. You have to try and try again. And when you think it's good, you can purchase a more expensive cage. Be careful about some important things: hygiene must be your priority. @Tylers_quest

Seems great @Nephilim

Hug if you want and need it. @astra.blue

Oh so good pic! I'm impressed by this skill. @aethia @chcartworks

I've read that Misskey and Pixelfed have PM in some hard debates, but I've never tested it to confirm. If it's match your needs, all of them are compatible with Fediverse and you can just move your followers (not the content, and sometimes, the process is not perfect). I don't know which instance can be OK with NSFW. I think testing Sharkey, a Misskey fork, in next weeks. I can post an update if there is a real feature for that. @Aster_Nubis129