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Why does my apartment smell like parmesan cheese?

https://lemmy.world/post/28181376

Why does my apartment smell like parmesan cheese? - Lemmy.World

I feel like it doesn’t always smell this way, and I’m just catching wafts of it sometimes. But I’m confused, for a while I thought it was every time the downstairs neighbours cook something, but they couldn’t possibly be using this cheese on EVERYTHING nearly every day, right??? Is there anything else that could smell similar? It’s not my feet btw.

Feel sad about blocking this guy and unsure I made the right decision

https://lemmy.world/post/28117818

Feel sad about blocking this guy and unsure I made the right decision - Lemmy.World

Idk what’s gotten into me but Ive been thinking of this guy I met a little too much. I’m not usually like this. I don’t think he’s anything THAT special but I am attracted to him. He is successful and tall, I don’t know wtf is wrong with me lol. He’s not that attractive (face, balding, has a gut and bad posture) but like idk why I found him endearing. His personality is probably average at best. I’m wondering is part of the reason is cause he’s been a bit inconsistent and like… idk doesn’t seem super interested like he takes a while to respond and stuff idk … But like so do i kind of Anyway I flirted back to him and it technically wasn’t something he had to respond to but he didn’t respond in like over 24hrs or was it 2 days… and honestly that annoyed and offended me so I blocked him. But I keep thinking about him idk if I did the wrong thing or what to do. . usually I don’t get hung up on guys this much I’m guessing he is evil 💀 Basically I felt like him taking so long to respond, which I’m not used to, gave me anxiety and made me too obsessive about him/the situation. That’s another part of why I blocked him. But I also feel guilty about it, and like I miss him sometimes. Idk I feel stuck.

Is it more likely that I feel vibrations from downstairs or upstairs neighbours?

https://lemmy.world/post/28070935

Is it more likely that I feel vibrations from downstairs or upstairs neighbours? - Lemmy.World

So when someone screetches their chair I literally feel the ground below me vibrate while I’m lying down on the couch. I feel like it’s from downstairs but does that even make sense?

Is it normal for your body to be falling apart at 28?

https://lemmy.world/post/28042334

Is it normal for your body to be falling apart at 28? - Lemmy.World

Turning 28 in a month and in the past year everything has gotten drastically worse. Is this just a normal part of aging or am I unlucky? I mean I am almost 30 but it just seemed kind of sudden idk. Like for example my varicose veins have gotten exponentially worse this year, I feel like my skin is sagging a lot over my whole body, and I feel like I’ve lost muscle mass, like significantly. To be fair I wasn’t as active as usual but in other similar situations I was never looking this way. Doctors said I’m fine btw. I’m just so exhausted and it’s depressing seeing this shit.

My neighbours are getting mad at me for opening my windows

https://lemmy.world/post/28023361

My neighbours are getting mad at me for opening my windows - Lemmy.World

Live in an apartment, I own the unit I live in. First the people below us threatened to sue us for their heat bills, claiming their “baby got cold”, meanwhile I’m indoors in a fucking t-shirt. Put a fucking blanket on it then. Because I opened my own windows in my own apartment for what they deemed was “too long”. I would also sometimes open the window on my floor of the stairwell, for circulation cause people’s disgusting smells enter the hallway (revolting cooking, extremely strong air freshener)… Multiple people complained that it created a “draft” and that their kids were cold. Then it got narrowed down to only ventilating when the toxic cleaning people came to use their insanely strong chemicals that I’m allergic to. Well that was phased out too since people complained about it getting “cold” and the “draft” so now our building doesn’t get aired out after it’s entirely cleaned with toxic fumes. NOW THE ONLY SAVING GRACE I HAVE is that I can leave the door to our floor open, so that at least the really strong smells on our little landing can diffuse outwards onto the stairwell instead of entering my apartment. Well the person living across me had taught their kid to say “close the doors close the doors!!!” every fucking time it goes outside with the “grandma” who gives me the dirtiest deadest look I’ve ever fucking seen in my life every time I see her. And now I can’t say jack shit about it because “oh but our kid said it that’s why we did it” I feel like these peoples life goal is to torment me. They’re also aware I have allergies and don’t give a shit.

If someone asks you a question indirectly, are you supposed to answer?

https://lemmy.world/post/27989158

If someone asks you a question indirectly, are you supposed to answer? - Lemmy.World

For example I was talking to someone and they basically took over and started monologuing… Part of what they said was “I don’t know what your situation is, whether youre born here or not, we have many problems here etc etc etc etc” But like he didn’t leave me a gap to answer so I’m guessing that meant he didn’t actually care about the answer right? Just trying to make sure I reacted appropriately. He then continued talking for a long time.

What's a good cheap car camera set up?

https://lemmy.world/post/27972919

What's a good cheap car camera set up? - Lemmy.World

I was thinking of buying an unlimited data plan and using an old phone to record through an app. Problem is the power source, how big of a battery do I need to keep in my car?

What do would ventilate/air out an entire stairwell most effectively? Opening a window on the very bottom floor, or somewhere in the middle?

https://lemmy.world/post/27931314

What do would ventilate/air out an entire stairwell most effectively? Opening a window on the very bottom floor, or somewhere in the middle? - Lemmy.World

Which would work best? It’s currently cold outside. I noticed someone left the bottom window fully open. People on the 4th floor complained about feeling a draft. Now I’m wondering how this works.

When you delete a post, do others still see the title on your profile?

https://lemmy.world/post/27930958

When you delete a post, do others still see the title on your profile? - Lemmy.World

I mean I can see them but it says they’re deleted. Can other people still see them too?

How do people with dark triad traits live with each other?

https://lemmy.world/post/27925982

How do people with dark triad traits live with each other? - Lemmy.World

My apartment isn’t soundproof and I feel like they rarely argue. They seem to get along better than me and my ex. I don’t get it. Like literally how do their relationships work. Do they just threaten each other when they need something? These people in particular are especially vile and manipulative and evil. They are also sadistic and hold grudges like there’s no tomorrow. How tf do they get along with EACH OTHER?