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He/Him A Gay, San Francisco Progressive, Gen X married to a millennial, Demi-leaning, Poly, Ginger Daddy, escaping from the bird app and looking forward to a better community. Professionally, background in Public Health and currently work in Hospital Compliance.
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Very happy that my first attempt at a chocolate caramel tart was successful.
Category is: Funeral for a drag queen. Wearing jewels gifted by said queen. Farewell Marlena the Magnificent
Second night of theatre for this weekend. I’m very excited to see this!
First night of theatre this weekend. Definitely topical…
Apparently it’s Boss’s day today and I got the nicest note from my staff member.
Sometimes with the pressures of the day-to-day it’s difficult to know if you are making a difference. But this was a nice surprise today. Small wins!

Some of my favorite memories of my friend Marlena aka Garry McLain from the last 20+ years. He passed peacefully in his sleep overnight. I'm glad for him that this part of his life is over. He was a lot of things, but mostly he was my friend and chosen family. Thank you for everything my friend!

Rest in Peace

Absolute Empress XXV de San Francisco
Marlena the Magnificent

Garry McLain
November 14, 1939 to October 5th, 2025

Our night of Theatre this month. We saw it in NYC and really enjoyed it. After the week I’ve had, looking forward to 2hrs of dad jokes and puns.
I’ve learned that - after a long day of running the Clothes Check booth at Folsom - the nicest thing to do is go out for a nice dinner and drink (for me) with my Love. Tonight, Delfina.
Taking a break from Dore Alley week for our night at the theatre this month.
Rolling into Dore Alley weekend with Gaga - we had to go on Tuesday cuz we have something every other night this week/weekend. These gays are gonna kill me…