I get the appeal of a home cooked meal, but that doesn’t automatically mean that going to a restaurant is a bad option. Also I don’t get the entitlement, where do their expectations come from?
Yep that pretty much hits home.
We’re Soviet era restaurants so bad that they all prefer home cooked? Or were they unaffordable for the average citizen back then? Or was it just a social norm to cook food for your guests?
They usually cook when I come over, I guess now they expect me to return the favor
I get it, but on the other hand I don’t want to spend half of my birthday in the kitchen
I get the sense that it’s very common or at least used to be common in Soviet Union to always invite your friends to your home and treat them to home made meals when there was something to celebrate. It seems that going out to restaurants used to be not an option for whatever reason, but I can only guess.
Why do russian parents insist on being treated to home cooked meals?
https://lemmy.world/post/43085078
Why do russian parents insist on being treated to home cooked meals? - Lemmy.World
I have been thinking on how to celebrate my birthday, I thought of inviting my
parents to my favorite restaurant. When I brought it up, they were all upset
“why don’t you invite us to your home? Why don’t you cook for us? Restaurant is
all reheated food, home cooked fresh food is much better” etc. We have lived in
Europe for almost my whole life, I don’t really understand what’s wrong with
going out to eat or why they expect me to invite them to my house and prepare a
festive meal on my birthday.
Don’t talk to me or my son ever again
German here, usually fluent enough to understand movies and tv shows unless the characters have poor pronunciation or a heavy accent. Also old english Shakespearean fancy words sometimes give me trouble. I consume most media (YouTube, games, etc) in English.