@eclectic it's all up to the vibe you would like to give off i guess! dorian electra is amazing for their purposefully disruptive energy, but anohni exists in a gentler gender-neutral space which adds gorgeous layers to her work.
i find it helpful, in my work, to think of it as an extra set of tools that we have to play with in our expression (that's not to say that it can be reduced down to a tool, of course!)