🪽 Gonna say upfront: My point here is that you need to look at reality as it is, not as you'd like it to be, to be effective. If you're counting on support that's not there, things will go very badly. But if you have a reality-based appraisal of the situation, you can at least have a fighting chance.
These numbers have only shifted 5–10 points over the past 3 years, it's been bleak for quite some time and we've been trying to raise the alarm but no one wanted us to spoil their happy fantasy that everyone already supports us and only extremist losers no one likes and a few rich elites support anti-trans policy. Bracketed numbers added by us from the linked data.
A new Pew Research Center survey finds that majorities of U.S. adults favor or strongly favor laws and policies that:
Require trans athletes to compete on teams that match their sex assigned at birth (66%) [49% strongly favor, 7% oppose, 8% strongly oppose]
Ban health care professionals from providing care related to gender transitions for minors (56%) [42% strongly favor, 12% oppose, 14% strongly oppose]
The survey also finds that more Americans support than oppose laws and policies that:
Require trans people to use public bathrooms that match their sex at birth, rather than the gender they identify with (49% favor or strongly favor, 26% oppose or strongly oppose) [36% strongly favor, 14% strongly oppose]
Make it illegal for public school districts to teach about gender identity in elementary schools (47% favor or strongly favor, 34% oppose or strongly oppose) [35% strongly favor, 20% strongly oppose]
In turn, adults are much more likely to oppose than favor policies requiring health insurance companies to cover medical care for gender transitions (53% vs. 22%). [36% strongly oppose, 10% strongly favor]
Notice the consistent pattern that people strongly against us outnumber people on our side to any degree. It wasn't quite that bad 3 years ago, but public opinion was already heavily tilted against us on these tangible questions. Support has only looked high if you ask "are you a tolerant person? y/n" rather than anything tangible, or pretended "I want trans people to go away as an issue and never have to hear about them again" is a pro-trans position.
Also: Teenagers are more transphobic than adults now, and both are overwhelmingly transphobic:
- Adults: 33% say you can be a different gender from your assigned sex vs. 65% say you are your assigned sex/gender always and forever
- Teens: 30% say you can be a different gender from your assigned sex vs. 69% say we're all fake (49% vs. 50% among teens who support the Democratic Party)
Also note that 48% of teens and 45% of adults say they're comfortable using gender-neutral pronouns for people, so great work by everyone on team "you should call people what they want," you got exactly what you wanted: a third of supposed allies who will just call you what you want to be nice are steadfast that all trans people are fake.
We're going into this with very little real support, because most trans people preferred to just imagine they're already popular and almost no one opposes us, propping up that fiction by certifying every transphobe totally not transphobic if they're just willing to be a two-faced glad-hand who will tell you whatever you want to hear when prompted. Also by pretending apathy is support, but apathy works both ways.
Finally, we can't think of any other demographic so self-destructive that they look at a poll that asks whether they're important for politicians to care about or a distraction from more important things and decides the former is against them and the latter supports them. 21% vs. 77% in this poll Erin Reed told y'all shows 77% on our side against anti-trans laws. Please do read that poll and compare responses on tangible policy and treatment of their kids to the 67% who say they support trans people living as we wish, it is bleak and you should calibrate your perception of professed allies accordingly. Anything past 33% is the minimum number of professed allies taking that anti-trans position. You will see a pattern emerge that about a third of professed allies are outright enemies. A similar fraction are somewhat hostile, but willing to let us have some concessions, or just plain don't care and simply want the whole issue of trans people existing to go away.
Plan accordingly.