First I’ve heard of Wire, but on the surface it looks pretty promising.
Personally I finally got most of my friends on Signal, so it will be a whole before I can get anyone to move to something else.
All my kubernetes nodes are Ubuntu but when I rebuild my cluster I’ll probably moved to Talos. My Gaming Rig/Workstation runs Bazzite. My Dev laptop runs Aurora. The little differences between Aurora and Bazzite are a little irritating so if I ever have a reason to rebuild one I’ll probably switch it.
The PIs run whatever is most convenient for their purpose.
My next NAS will probably run Unraid or TrueNAS, but for now its Synology.