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Isabelle. 29. she/her. chief obsessive at @[email protected]
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It's just such a nightmare, technologically speaking
God, I wish the ATmosphere (the Bluesky ecosystem) were less ... what it is

@atax1a it baffles me that people are using HAL and disposability culture to defend LB rather than LB's numerous victims, most of whom are transfems.

like, this should be the easiest fucking thing in the world. LB isn't a victim. victims don't periodically show up in communities under pseudonyms and try to install themselves into positions of power over others. victims don't run a literal religious abuse cult with themselves at the center of it.

it's so fucking disappointing.

@itsmaya @atax1a I mean, she *could*! I want to extend a lot of charity to these kinds of people because I grew up in a Mormon family and considered myself a "conservative" for a while when I was 12! But the reality is that there's no sign she's going to, and there's no point giving her credit for it before she does.

This probably sounds argumentative because a lot of stuff I say sounds like that so what I mean to say is I agree with you and I'm sick of people falling for Laurelai's shit.

meantime, we are expected to be "accountable" when people wouldn't even fucking tell us what we were alleged to have done, and then we find out multiple years later that the person behind the allegations was playing the "believe victims" tune without any consideration or consultation of what our actual victim wanted

This, and also, redeemability is an academic quibble. Laurelai could have a better life if she'd be a better person. She wants the first thing without the second.

https://infosec.exchange/users/atax1a/statuses/115379309282649244
laurelai bailey wants you living in a fantasy land where trans women are inherently innocent and can do no wrong. this is a form of affinity-fraud.
your communities collect abusive power-hungry fuckers because you do not take the time to investigate accusations, because that's hard work and difficult conversation, so you just believe whatever makes you feel the best, and that winds up passively disposing of people whose stories are difficult to hear.
you people talk a big game about "believing victims" when some white transfem tells you a sob story, and then when we speak up, it turns into "wow, you sound mean, have you considered that you're the cause of the problem"