saying "wrong" is another way of saying "non-grammatical" in pretty much every discussion on language. linguists don't use it because it's not technical, not because using those words means something else.
that's pretty cool! i never got to see the barren version of lemmy. the version right now is the best state of lemmy for me. i like the cozy atmosphere. i know that will change, but by the time there's been a major change i'd be a part of the larger community of users. so that's great.