Fuck the South - Lemmy.world
The Southern States of America have some of the most beautiful landscapes and
climates this country has to offer. It also harbors some of the worst people and
culture this country has to offer. Having traveled all over the US, being to
every state other than Hawaii and having lived in a total of seven, four of them
being Southern States, I’ve had the chance to see what the country is like, it’s
various cultures and the people that make up those cultures, and have a
developed a strong opinion from my experiences. That opinion: Fuck the South. I
vividly remember moving from a North Western state to a southern state as a
child and experiencing the utter culture shock from the move. In the NW, I was
welcomed for who I was. In the South, I was not. In the NW, I was able to be who
I wanted to be. In the South, I had to be like them. In the NW, you were judged
by your character. In the south, you were judged by the cost and size of your
material items. This is not Red vs Blue States. This is the South vs the rest of
the United States. The utter amount of corruption in Southern governments from
the Governors offices’ down to the local police departments is both appalling,
but extremely apparent if you just stopped to actually take a look. There’s a
massive amount of suffering from those in poverty in Southern States because of
the rugged individualism in the culture and the utter lack of empathy towards
those they do not know. As long as they get theirs, that’s all they care about.
In the Southern Culture, the mentality is not “we’re in this together”, it’s
“not my problem if it doesn’t affect me”. The South = “Me, Myself, and I” and
always has been. Disagree? Then how else can you explain their history if not
for their own selfish reasons? Everyone’s main focus is themselves and their
immediate family/friends. Everyone else just exists (barely) and if their
existence is worse than the Southerners, then that’s their problem and the
southerner will not lose any sleep over it. The South’s education is abysmal.
During my time of puberty I was living in southern states. I had no idea what
sexual intercourse was or how it was performed until I was 14 because my health
classes sex education was “abstinence only”. I learned by watching pornography.
I didn’t know about the female reproductive system or how it worked until I was
16 when my girlfriend told me about it. When we talked about sexual intercourse
and the reproductive systems of both men and women, we talked about solely about
STDs and how losing your virginity causes you to lose a part of yourself (this
was an actual lesson in the sixth grade, I shit you not. My teacher also talked
about how pornography created Ted Bundy. Again, I shit you not). It’s not at all
surprising that teen pregnancies ravage southern states. How could it not? They
purposely keep teenagers in the dark as a form of control. And if a teenager
breaks out of that control and gets pregnant, then their punishment is to have
the child and be a teenaged parent. But this isn’t surprising. The culture of
the south has always been about controlling others. They literally betrayed and
fought against the United States because of it. And even after they lost, they
still could not accept losing control. The KKK was formed, Jim Crow laws
established, and repealed the rights of their fellow Americans. And this
mentality still affects Southern Culture to this day with their weaponization of
religion and identity politics. Southern culture is also a very cruel and
hateful one. (I know! That seems ridiculous to think! But is it when compared to
the rest of American Values?) “What about Southern hospitality?” You may ask.
This is true. The South is known for being polite. But being polite is not the
same as being kind. Politeness is the social norm of the south, but kindness is
not. Southerners only take kindness at face value. It’s not done out of the
kindness of the heart, it is done out of egotism and the need to feel morally
superior than those around them. In my experience, the southerner is the first
to judge, but the last to take any criticism. I could go on and on with little
intricate criticisms like the priority of athletics over education (SEC is
absolute proof of this), or how you wouldn’t be able to tell the difference
between a picture of a village in a developing nation and small town in rural
Mississippi, but I don’t want to be here writing all night. Obviously the world
is not black and white. I know not every southerner is a bad person. I know you
can’t put everyone in a singular box as every person is different. But when it
comes to defining the culture of the American South, it is an utter
embarrassment of the United States and against what our forefathers wanted the
country to represent. Freedom and Tolerance of others (Benjamin Franklin
actively pushed for the tolerance of other religions in the US. Would the
average Southerner do that?) Our biggest mistake as a country was not completing
the Reconstruction of the American South. It is because of this failure you
still see confederate flags on the back of their trucks and monuments of
traitors in the center of their towns. And now the democracy of the United
States is at risk because of it. Fuck. The. South.