Douglas Eby

@douglaseby
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Writer: posts, videos, podcasts. Topics: artists, emotional health, mental health, gifted adults, neurodivergence. Author of the Creative Mind series of sites.
Creative Mind Siteshttps://beacons.ai/thecreativemind
Creative Mind Videoshttp://www.youtube.com/TheCreativeMindvideos
Substack/The Creative Mindhttps://thecreativemind.substack.com/
The Creative Mind sitehttps://thecreativemind.net/
How Does Motherhood (or Not) Affect Your Creative Life?

“The motherhood thing – I think of it like a marathon, except a marathon is over in a day.” Filmmaker Caren McCaleb.

The Creative Mind
Living As A Highly Sensitive Man: Redefining Masculinity And Resilience

"I want to live in a world where men feel safe to be tender, thoughtful, and emotionally attuned."

The Creative Mind
"Then I created a roadmap to guide me out of the dense fog of my illness and fear. I learned how to self-regulate my nervous system."
Audio podcast: Trauma, Emotions and Health...
https://thecreativemind.substack.com/p/trauma-emotions-and-health-from-an
Trauma, Emotions and Health - from an interview with Dr Cathleen King

Listen now | "Then I created a roadmap to guide me out of the dense fog of my illness and fear. I learned how to self-regulate my nervous system."

The Creative Mind

"An artistic career can mirror many of the same struggles you may have had as a child. 

"Artists can get wrapped up in thinking: “that is just the nature of the artistic world.” But, once they do their emotional work they have more clarity about how they have been repeating some old relationships in their artistic endeavors, something remarkable happens."
Dr Holtz in her post Is Unhealed Emotional Trauma Impacting Your Creativity or Performance? EMDR Can Help https://creativemindspsychotherapy.com/2022/11/06/6-questions-creatives-can-look-into-about-unhealed-emotional-trauma/

Emotional Trauma Impacting Your Creativity? EMDR Can Help

For creatives, performers, artists with unhealed trauma impeding their creativity and performance, EMDR can help heal

Creative Minds Psychotherapy

How do you feel about your arts career?

"I didn’t want to dedicate my entire time to this industry.” Zoe Saldana

“It feels meaningful and right. At the same time, you don’t necessarily feel satisfied with your career.” Dr Holtz

Judy Greer: “I still struggle with being an artist but decided to just tell myself I’m an artist and see if I start to believe it…”
https://thecreativemind.substack.com/p/building-a-satisfying-life-in-the

Building A Satisfying Life in the Arts

You are called to a creative career. What are some challenges? Photo: Zoe Saldana on her acting career: "I didn’t want to dedicate my entire time to this industry.”

The Creative Mind

Dr Holtz says codependency can manifest in your creativity and creative pursuits when you give up "vital parts of yourself in the pursuit of your accomplishments...and lose your connection to your authentic self. By extension, your self worth erodes."

How Codependency Can Affect Our Creative Pursuits, Authentic Expression and Self-Discovery
https://thecreativemind.substack.com/p/how-codependency-can-affect-our-creative?utm_source=publication-search

How Codependency Can Affect Our Creative Pursuits, Authentic Expression and Self-Discovery

"Codependency can infiltrate your creative journey."

The Creative Mind

"There are many ways to invite the unconscious to the table."

"Dream Analysis...Meditation...
Creative expression can help express unconscious thoughts and emotions."

Dr Holtz of Creative Minds Psychotherapy, in her article
https://creativemindspsychotherapy.com/2024/12/31/you-can-access-your-unconscious-mind-to-achieve-your-dreams/

Related video: "Why bother to learn about our Shadow Self? Caroline Myss explains." See video and more in podcast post Facing our Shadow for more creativity, authentic power and purpose https://thecreativemind.substack.com/p/facing-our-shadow-for-more-creativity

You Can Access Your Unconscious Mind to Achieve Your Dreams  - Creative Minds Psychotherapy

In-depth therapy, psychoanalytic combined with EMDR, can help you heal and invest yourself towards your goals or dreams.

Creative Minds Psychotherapy

Toxic Family Dynamics

Meg Haworth, PhD notes "Sexual, physical, and emotional violation is debilitating. It can lead to unhealthy choices, poor personal boundaries and self-defeating patterns."

How to Understand and Recover from Narcissistic and Toxic Family Dynamics [podcast post with link to her video interview & course]

https://thecreativemind.substack.com/p/how-to-understand-and-recover-from

How to Understand and Recover from Narcissistic and Toxic Family Dynamics

Listen now (8 mins) | Meg Haworth, PhD recalls, "I grew up with a narcissistic parent in a toxic family system, and also had all kinds of abuse growing up and spent a lot of time in my childhood being very sick."

The Creative Mind

Ashley Judd entered treatment in 2006 for "codependence in my relationships; depression, blaming, raging, numbing, denying and minimizing my feelings."

Dr Holtz of Creative Minds Psychotherapy notes "In the realm of creative endeavors...codependency can stealthily infiltrate in your creative’s journey."

From article How Codependency Can Affect Our Creative Pursuits, Authentic Expression and Self-Discovery https://thecreativemind.substack.com/p/how-codependency-can-affect-our-creative

How Codependency Can Affect Our Creative Pursuits, Authentic Expression and Self-Discovery

"Codependency can infiltrate your creative journey."

The Creative Mind

"She got very loud & bullying. I left the meeting."

Psychiatrist Judith Orloff: "...this woman got very authoritarian...and bossy.

"It was on a zoom call and I was supposed to be part of this meeting and I'm feeling this isn't acceptable to me and so I just told everyone I have to leave."

How to navigate sensory overload and trauma as a highly sensitive person [podcast]

https://thecreativemind.substack.com/p/how-to-navigate-sensory-overload

[Image: Miranda (Meryl Streep) in The Devil Wears Prada]

How to navigate sensory overload and trauma as a highly sensitive person

Some perspectives of trauma recovery physician Aimie Apigian and empathic psychiatrist Judith Orloff

The Creative Mind