at this point in the US, complacency = complicity. edit your relationships accordingly.
"In the median experience of tyranny, life is largely unchanged. Even the median experience of those being tyrannized can be free of intolerable forms of oppression. If we wait until the abuses become severe and widespread enough to register in our standard analytic tools, it will be too late."
https://www.offmessage.net/p/the-median-experience-of-tyranny


