I was asked what I wished medical practitioners knew about treating non-binary patients, and it merits sharing: "Treat me as a person with a body that has parts that may be troubling me; Don't treat me as a person whose identity is defined into one of two boxes by those parts."
Also, the number of trans and queer folks I've convinced it's safe to be themselves is both awesome and worrying. Cuz what if I misled them? What if they're just gonna get hurt now?
Suicide being thrust to the fore hasn't made my immediate situation any more tenable, but it sure has helped with processing, and given me opportunity to share what I've learned.