@Mikal I understand your frustration.
Perhaps put the photo/web stuff on hold for a couple years. Maybe in that time the tech will catch up with your needs.
During that time you can do those with hands projects you are good at.
Heck I’ve got a couple projects here in Maine I could use help with if you don’t have enough on your properties.
Travel, see new places, maybe a fresh dating pool would be fun?
You don’t have to stay bogged down indefinitely. You’ve got this.