I don't know who needs to hear this, but:
If a particular instance's social mores or terms of conduct don't suit you, maybe there's another instance that'd suit you better. It is easy to move, you will not lose your followers/following, and you can still find people on any instance to follow.
The earliest car by Henry Ford circa 1896. A decade after Karl Benz patented the internal combustion automobile. Ford called his the quadricycle.
Footnote: pneumatic tires as show here were invented by John Boyd Dunlop in Dublin, Ireland, in 1890 for use on bicycles, greatly improving their comfort and utility. They became an essential enabler for the automobile.