@YouCaughtScott There's loads of other things that go into this (I got into a lot of fights with both men and women over this topic) but it really boils down to people seeing marriage as a sort of business transaction. "I married you and provide you with shelter/emotional support/etc., therefore you provide me with sex when I want it." Fucked up all around, and it's gonna take lots of work for that kind of thinking to be undone.