Reminder for all you "thats just normal human behavior" types
https://sh.itjust.works/post/6027006
Reminder for all you "thats just normal human behavior" types - sh.itjust.works
I just ran into several comments all saying this. If you’re going to be policing
this community for “normal human behavior” you’ve certainly got a lot of work
cut out for yourself. Almost everything about ADHD is an exaggeration of normal
human behavior, we don’t randomly tweet like birds or wear silly hats, it’s the
exaggeration that makes it a disorder. It’s also really invalidating and it’s
the same gaslighting crap that we’ve had fed to us by morons our whole lives.
How do we report bugs? - sh.itjust.works
I think I saw an issues page a while back but don’t see anything in the sidebar
or a quick glance at the settings.
Where can I ask questions about trans-related stuff?
https://sh.itjust.works/post/3392300
Where can I ask questions about trans-related stuff? - sh.itjust.works
[he/him] I’m sorry if this is the wrong place to ask; I wanted to post in an
active, trans people-focused community where I’d get answers that were for sure
going to lead to a place that align with my values. Feel free to delete this but
please explain to me if it’s offensive so I can correct my behavior going
forward. I see myself as an ally but unfortunately I don’t have any trans
friends that I can talk to. I’ve worked with and been in therapy with a few
before, along with reading quite a bit online in places like here, so I’m not
completely oblivious about what’s going on. One of the main things I feel I’m
missing is the full vocabulary I should have in 2023. Example: I saw a post the
other day either on this instance or hexbear mentioning “chasers” and had to
pour through the thread to find out what that meant. I feel like an important
part of advocating for trans rights as a cis person is knowing what’s offensive
so if I run into it I can call it out or I don’t do something by accident out of
ignorance. In the end I found out it was something I already knew was wrong but
didn’t have a name for it. I’m sorry if this sounds stupid in the end but all of
us have to start learning somewhere, right? I guess I’m looking for a place
where people would assume you’re asking in good faith but be open to questions
coming from ignorance (not intolerance).
