No, it isn’t. Victim blaming is a thing, but there needs to be some limits or the concept loses any significance.
“Dress modestly when you go out else you get raped” is victim blaming.
“Don’t organise an international event in one the world’s most dangerous and war-ridden regions of the globe, literally a handful of Kms from a fence, armed checkpoints, and automated machine gun turrets” is reasonable common sense.
Honestly, I agree with you.
Of course, if someone offered to come by my house and set this all up for free I wouldn’t say no, but nowadays with a fast enough internet connection you’re a few keystrokes and maybe 15 minutes away from any movie or TV series you might feel like watching.
The 15/20 minutes saved don’t justify the massive work and maintenance to keep this all running.
Throw as much money as possible into the best institutes for cancer research in the world, until cancer is cured.
Then, for myself, commission the best architects and contractors to have an absolutely exact replica of the Spencer Mansion built for me.