Tbf Lemmy is still lacking on many things like media(comics, games, tv shows, cartoons, anime/Manga etc), Reddit right now is THE place aside from niche sites specific to each median, but as for Discord I agree, alternatives are not so hard there… Lemmy is getting there though.

Yup and it’s closed source, it’s of course likely to be more lax for a time than Tik Tok&Instagram until it takes over…