@415Daddy There's a lot of holier-than-thou queer people out there with conservative baggage who are desperate to appear "normal", which consists of hiding their sexuality at every opportunity and demanding that others do the same, even in safe and consensual environments. They see people who are sexually active or open as lesser-than.

It's not a new set of insecurities. It also doesn't need to be entertained, nor are we required to provide unpaid therapy for these people.