I keep running into a word/meaning problem. I've always understood that if you both Top and Bottom you were verse, and if you both sub and Dom you were a Switch. But more and more I keep seeing switch used to mean Top and Bottom.

Are people using 'switch' wrong or did all the words change and I missed it? What does Switch mean

@Illudium_Q36 it's a personal thing. I'm autistic and can get very uncomfortable with some items touching my skin, I also have problems falling and staying asleep. They know and normally tell me to unlock for sleep during chaste sessions. However the Sir who told me to lock fell asleep before telling me and since I always do my best to follow their wishes it meant I went to bed locked

The argument was just about being more responsible and care, plus a new rule that I need to look after myself