I almost thought it was a wasp nest. I'm glad I finally met its resident.
I almost thought it was a wasp nest. I'm glad I finally met its resident.
I have officially lost ten pounds since returning home from a foreign country last year.
Honestly, I think I had a cyst on my left ovary that made me gain some weight while abroad. I had been working out, but my diet wasn’t the best, last year. Since I have been back in the states, I have quit caffeine, sodas, and fast food. I have been trying to eat more vegetables, and have begun drinking soy milk again, like I used to in high school. I have been running one mile per day, and walking one mile per day, as well. I have also been swimming laps, but I was doing that while abroad, too. I really think the change in diet has helped. If anyone is struggling with their weight, hang in there. I wasn’t heavily overweight, but it is a relief to have a healthy BMI now. Even if no one notices, keep going. I still have a relative that is trying to convince people to call me a nickname she created in the ‘90’s, that means “fat”. If you have people like that in your life, too, ignore them. They’re probably just projecting their own issues onto you. It says more about their issues than yours, when they attack others. Stay healthy!
Lemmy, how do you kill a ton of black widow spiders in a garage, without touching them?
Yesterday, the temperature was in the 80's.
Im pretty sure my older "sister" has locals calling me a mean nickname she created for fat women in the 90's
I heard a child call me that name at work today, and it isn’t a commonly used name. It’s a cruel joke that my distant cousins created to bully women they thought were fat. They typically use the name to call women obese, and imply that they smell (because they’re obese). I’m not even overweight. I shower every day, after I run a mile and walk a mile for exercise. My “sister” (who is most likely not my biological sister, but was raised with me), has a lot of nerve to call anyone fat. She is obese. I really hope the cruel bullying isn’t coming from her, but I am pretty sure it is. She acts catty, and immature in groups of women. She will often pull me aside in conversations amongst family to trash talk other women, and I’m sick of it. If she’s willing to do that when I’m present, I’m sure she is doing the same about every woman she knows. The sad part is, she still thinks her group of friends are like the mean girls she hung around in high school. She openly made fun of my son’s current school principal because she and the other moms think he’s gay. I have never met him. I don’t care to meet him. She has been in his office multiple times to complain about how her son is being bullied and how the principal won’t do anything about it. I offered to help her obtain an inter-district transfer to a school district with few instances of bullying, but she just continued to rant about the principal. I haven’t spoken to her in days. So what does she do? She has someone’s child verbally harass me with an insulting nickname that she helped create to bully obese people when she was thin in high school. Has she not looked in the mirror since the 90’s? I am currently recovering from anemia, an infection, a dislocated bone (last year), but can still manage to run/walk two miles per day on a foot with a broken bone that was never reset. I haven’t once called her some cruel name to insinuate that she is obese. I was minding my own business. It was a great day at work. Some person’s child approached me just as my day ended and said the cruel remark towards me while looking at me, and laughing. I am sick of obese, butch, female, bullies. I am so sick of them trying to turn the younger generation into their messengers and new recruits for their gang. The sad part is, women like her bully everyone this way. It isn’t just me. I watch them bully their husbands, their kids, and even the other women they call friends. We’re all supposed to tolerate their tyranny and their tantrums? I wish there was a way to sign her up for therapy. I’ve been through therapy. With my medical history of past surgeries, a roll over car accident, a failed marriage, having been raped by a distant cousin in my sleep, and being raised by two distant relatives that won’t explain why; hell yeah, I have been through therapy. Someone needs to film her behavior; the bullying, the cruel gossiping, the spreading of lies to make people lash out on her behalf. It needs to be shared with a therapist. There is no reason I needed to be called fat today. Especially not through a child, who was told to do so by a jealous, obese, woman in her 40’s.
We are going on hour seven of demanding to be held.