How do you deal with a high sex drive in a dry spell?
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How to break up and stay friends while still in love?
How to break up and stay friends while still in love? - Lemmy.World
Hi, so me (29NB) and my partner (23F) of almost 3 years have realized that our goals and long term plans are incompatible and that we can’t stay together (not what I am here for, so no need to get into it) the thing is that we love eachother and get along great, and even after realizing that we are breaking up, we both still want to be friends. My question is, how? How to turn a relationship with plenty of sex and love into a platonic friendship without ending up emotionally stuck on each-other or having “slip-ups”? At first I though that maybe starting with like 3 months of no contact can help make a clean slate to return to and start a new friendship on, but after discussion it I think that we still need eachothers’ support as friends and it would be quite hard for us to just cut contact. I had another idea of slowely banning romantic elements until the relationship goes platonic, maybe something like every week ban a new element, first can be saying “I love you” or terms of endearment, second could be sleeping over (we don’t live together), third could be sex, etc, until we are essentially friends. But is this a terrible idea that will just leave us hung up on eachother? Anyone with experience on how to turn mutual romantic love into a platonic love/friendship?
What is your opinion on ghosting?
What is your opinion on ghosting? - Lemmy.World
Do you consider ghosting people a reasonable way to deal with today’s overwhelming and constant information and notification overload? Or do you find it offensive and unfriendly? Would you equate it to a person ignoring you irl or is ignoring a text different? For this post let’s assume the people involved are or were in the past friends, and ghosting is leaving someone on “read” for more than 2 days.
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Would you retire at 30 and live frugally?
Would you retire at 30 and live frugally? - Lemmy.World
If you had the money to retire at 30, your savings would be invested and on an average year your earnings would cover your expenses. You would have health insurance, so no worries there. The only catch is that you would have to keep your expenses at 65% of what you spend right now. Would you take it, or would you rather work a few more years for a better lifestyle and financial security?
Trying to make a phone proxy
Trying to make a phone proxy - Lemmy.World
I am tired of paying for roaming, of being location tracked by my provider and running out of SIM slots. So I have decided to connect some SIM capabilities to my server and set it up as a sort of proxy that I could access over the internet to send regular SMS and make regular calls through the server. As far as I can tell it seems to be really complicated to do in linux and I just couldn’t find anyway that would actually support sound over calls. The only solutions I found right now are to get an old phone (not ideal because of the price, battery and reliability) or use something like https://www.makerfabs.com/maduino-zero-4g-lte-sim7600.html [https://www.makerfabs.com/maduino-zero-4g-lte-sim7600.html] Which can be connected to the server on the aux and serial ports. This is not too pricey but still seems like a bit much for my needs. My question is, are there better ways? Really all I need is SMS and calls.
TIFU by contemplating pooping near my SO
TIFU by contemplating pooping, near my SO - Lemmy.World
Today as me and my SO were coming home from a morning walk, I felt a fart coming through. As they were unlocking the door, I stood there, letting the fart slowly make it’s way out. Feeling the fart nearing it’s destination, i started contemplating going all the way and just going to the bathroom. Finally, the fart leaves me, the noisy street and the distance between us was enough to ensure my stealth. Suddenly I notice that my SO is looking at me with a slight giggle. “Whats funny?” I ask, fearing that I overestimated my stealthiness. “I know what you are thinking right now.” They reply with a giggle. I slightly freak out not knowing what they think I’m thinking, because in my head I had no thoughts that were related to us right now. “What do you mean?” I ask, slightly scared “You are figuring out if you need to poop, right?” “What?? How TF can they know that??” I ask myself as I get flustered and confused. Eventually they tell me that I have a “Contemplating Poop” face and that they always know if I’m considering taking a dump. Anyway…