How do you figure out your identity?
https://lemmy.world/post/43740464
How do you figure out your identity? - Lemmy.World
I know I’m not cis, but that’s about it. I’m AFAB, I would like to appear more
masculine, I have dysphoria around my chest and genitals and would like them to
be more masculine, but I want to present as a femboy or a twink, I don’t want
facial hair or curves and I want a deeper voice. I like the idea of people not
knowing what gender I am when they look at me. But at the same time neither
she/her not he/him feel right for me, and I’m happier when people use they/them.
Part of me thinks I don’t need a label, but at the same time I feel like I need
a way do describe and identify myself. Can anyone help? I feel so confused.
Blahaj rules! [Game: Thrifty Business]
https://lemmy.world/post/43236437
Dash cam suggestion? - Lemmy.World
I just got my first car and I was thinking I should probably get a dash cam
since it has to stay in the driveway, but I feel out of my depth. I don’t have a
lot of money so I’m hoping for one that is at most around AU$100. I also think
covering both front and rear would be best, but obviously will take advice on
that regard. Are there any specific ones you would recommend? I feel completely
out of my depth. Also, I’m located in Australia if that makes a difference.
If sex characteristics were switched but everything else was the same, what would you identify as?
https://lemmy.world/post/36499074
If sex characteristics were switched but everything else was the same, what would you identify as? - Lemmy.World
I had a dream last night that the sex characteristics of the genders were
switched, so women had penises, facial hair, etc., and men had vaginas, boobs,
etc., but in every other way (e.g. socially) everything else was the same. In
this scenario do you think you would identify as the other gender? I’m a trans
man, and though it feels weird to think about, I think I would identify as a
woman in that scenario, but I found the concept interesting and wondered what
other people would think.
Long distance and not sure where we'll end up
https://lemmy.world/post/34605287
Long distance and not sure where we'll end up - Lemmy.World
My partner and I are in a long distance relationship, we’ve been together for 5
years. From the start, the plan was that I would move there, but he didn’t start
the application because he wanted to get a stable job (he was working when we
met but quit around 2022 when they expected everyone to move from remote back to
on-site).
Last year he told me that if Trump gets in he’d move here instead (he’s
American). My family expressed doubts about his sincerity, so I confirmed with
him multiple times and he insisted.
Now he’s saying that he never thought Trump would actually get in, so I
shouldn’t have taken him seriously. We fought about it and when I said he went
back on his word he says I went back on mine since I haven’t moved there yet and
am now saying I don’t want to because of everything happening and I don’t feel
safe (I’m trans, and even if I wasn’t foreigners aren’t being treated well from
what I’ve heard).
He’s now saying he doesn’t want to leave his mom, which is fair, but I feel
conflicted about it all. I feel like he’s broken my trust, but he’s adamant he
didn’t lie because he never actually expected this to happen.
He also thinks everything is being exaggerated and isn’t really as bad as I
think it is, especially where he is on the west coast. He says it’s safe there,
but I wonder for how long. He says if it gets worse we can move here, but how
can I trust that? I feel like he’s burying his head in the sand (he responded
that I’m burying my head in the sand) and ignoring how bad it’s going to be, but
maybe he’s right and I’m stressing too much? At the start of the year he agreed
with me about how bad it is but now he doesn’t seem to think it’s that bad.
Mostly I just want advice I guess, an outside perspective. I don’t know how to
feel and I’m conflicted about it all.
DAE get the sudden urge to clean themselves more thoroughly/harshly?
https://lemmy.world/post/32338332
DAE get the sudden urge to clean themselves more thoroughly/harshly? - Lemmy.World
I hate bathing (ASD) but I do it every day because it is Required and Expected.
Most of the time I get in and do what I need to and get out, but occasionally I
get this urge to be really thorough and scrub really hard with the rough sponge.
Does anyone else get these random urges? I don’t have OCD as far as I know and
it doesn’t happen often.
Binder suggestions? - Lemmy.World
I hope it’s okay for me to post here. I really want to wear a binder but I
struggle with the ones you pull over your head. I was wondering if anyone had
any suggestions for ones that you can wrap around sort of? I know there are some
with zips or clasps or other methods, I’m just not sure what’s good. I’m a bit
overweight, so I’m worried that it might sit weird or roll up or be
uncomfortable, and I worry that ones with underarm fastening would be a sensory
nightmare, but also that front fastening would be visible. Does anyone have any
experiences to share that might be helpful? Thanks in advance.
Got my first tattoo today! - Lemmy.World
Lemmy
