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Building my first army - Lemmy.World

40k noob here, slowly building up to a 1000 point Ork army So far I have Ork Combat Patrol 1x Beastboss (80 pts) 2x Beast Snagga boyz (2 x 95 = 190pts) 1x Squighog Boyz (160pts) 1x Trukk (65pts) 1x Killa Kanz (125pts) 1x Stormboyz (65pts) Which should take me to 685pts So far I’ve just kind of been randomly acquiring things based on what looks cool to me in the moment when I see them in a store, which feels like an appropriately orky way to build an army, but I figured I should maybe start applying a little kunnin to my burgeoning WAAAGH So where would yooz gitz go frum here? I’m thinking a box or two of gretchin will probably be my next acquisition, which leaves me with 200-some points to fill

Does my friend's response rub anyone else the wrong way? - Lemmy.World

This is gonna be a bit of a weird one, try to keep an open mind. I went to a nudist resort with a couple friends a few times last year, it was a good time, we’re hoping to go back a few times this year once the weather warms up again. It’s not a sexual thing, it’s just nice to hang out without pants, no laundry to do when you get home, etc. There are some swingers who frequent it, but they’re very respectful about it, they’ll ask if you’re “in the lifestyle” but if you’re not they don’t pressure you and let it drop. None of my friends involved in this story are swingers. I’ve been kind of floating the idea to a few other friends I thought might be interested. It’s a mixed bag, some are open to it, others aren’t, not really surprising there, my own wife isn’t interested, and I get that it’s not everyone’s thing. Two of the people I floated the idea to are a married couple. We’ll call them Will and Janet (not their real names.) Will wasn’t interested, but Janet was open to it. The resort posted their event schedule for this year recently, so I’ve been talking with the friends I went with last year to figure out when we want to go. We narrowed it down to a couple events we’re interested in, and I’ve been letting my other friends who were interested know so we can figure out our plans. Janet messages me back after I tell her what weekends we’re planning on. Said she asked Will and that he wasn’t comfortable with her going so she’s going to pass. And that just kind of rubs me the wrong way. Every relationship has a different dynamic of course, but personally I have a hard time imagining telling my wife that “I’m not comfortable” with her doing something she wants to do unless it is something outright dangerous. Little extra context, we’re all in our 30s, we’re all mutual friends, it wouldn’t be particularly unusual for any of us to go hang out with anyone else in this group. I’ve hung out with with just Janet before, we have spare keys to each other’s houses, and I’m pretty sure my mom regards them as basically extras of her own children, in short we’re all close and trust each other. The other friends I went with last year are similarly close, a couple, we’ll call them Erin and Steve. Will’s actually known Erin longer than I have, and probably worth mentioning, went skinny dipping with her and some other friends once back in their teens or early 20s. They never dated or anything like that, she’s just kind of “one of the guys” the dudes there were gonna jump into a frozen creek naked so she joined them. And Steve is a very chill dude. Will is also not a controlling guy. This is the first time I’ve ever heard anything like that from him (albeit second-hand through Janet) very much a live and let live kind of dude. He’s maybe a little prudish and old fashioned in his own tastes, but accepting that his tastes aren’t for everyone. I’m not really planning on pushing the issue, for all I know Janet got cold feet and is using him as an excuse, and unless I see any other sign of him getting weird, I’m just gonna chalk it up to their relationship dynamic being different from my own. But I just kind of wanted to see if that rubs anyone else the wrong way.

For anyone around eastern PA, Sunny Rest Resort has posted their 2025 Calendar - Lemmy.World

Also of note- It’s their 80 year anniversary They’ve chosen not to raise their rates this year Rates are 50% off during their “shoulder seasons” in May and September Still kind of dipping my toes into social nudity, but I made my way there twice last year and had a great time and look forward to going back. Last year I camped out for their beer fest and came up for the day one other weekend. For those who have strong opinions one way or the other, they do have a pretty active community of swingers, I was asked a few times if I was in “the lifestyle,” but it never felt pushy and never made anything weird, and everything out in the open stayed pretty much PG except for the fact that everyone was naked. I’ve heard that some of the regulars can get kind of cliquey that wasn’t my experience, but I haven’t been there enough to really comment on that. Hopefully I’ll see some of you around this year.

Another damn trump/election post - Lemmy.World

The other day I saw a post somewhere on Lemmy, it seems to have been taken down or at least I’m unable to find it again, by some dickwad asking, pretty clearly it bad faith, why people felt like they needed the day off from work or school after the election. It was full of him bitching about basically people being too soft if they couldn’t handle their feelings being hurt and that sort of garbage. This was basically going to be my reply to that. I work in 911 dispatch, that should tell you that I’m the kind of person who can handle stress well, i’ve dealt with some crazy shit both at work and in my personal life, I don’t think anyone is going to claim I’m someone who’s easily rattled. And still, despite all of the things I’ve seen, done, heard, and been a part of, I have never felt as physically sick from stress as I did watching the election results coming in Tuesday night. I was at work, and in the midst of it as it was becoming clear that Trump was going to win, right around 2AM, I got one of those really insane calls, the kind of thing that makes the evening news and that they make true crime TV shows out of, that normally leaves even a hardened tough guy like me a little bit shaken-up, and all I felt was relief because something finally came along to wrench my mind from the election. I woke up the next day still feeling sick to my stomach. My wife woke up in tears. I spent the day feeling like I was lost in a fog, and by the next day the fog lifted giving way to a simmering rage that I’m not sure will ever go away entirely. Luckily Wednesday and Thursday were my scheduled days off this week, I genuinely don’t think I could have worked Wednesday night feeling like I felt. I’m an old boy scout, I took the scout motto of “be prepared” to heart, I believe that most people don’t really rise to the occasion but instead they fall to their level of training, and all the other sayings and such about preparedness and self-reliance and all of that, and I’ve prepared myself so that I am rarely at a complete loss of what to say or do in any given situation, I have plenty of training and life experience to fall back on. No one ever trains you how to watch democracy die. Or how to handle something like ¾ of your country turning their back on your most deeply-held values either by actively voting against them or by not even caring enough to bother showing up to vote. And nothing prepares you to look around you in a 911 dispatch center, surrounded by people that people are supposed to be able to trust to stand for justice, safety, law, order, security, fairness, equity, compassion, basic human decency, who are supposed to stand up for and provide assistance to vulnerable members of our community when they need it most, who like to pat themselves on the back for being the “calm voice in the night” or the “thin gold line”… … And realizing that most of them either don’t care or are actively rooting for a man who stands for the exact opposite of all of those values. For the first time I can remember I feel well and truly lost. I tend to be the guy people turn to when they have a problem because I know how to fix it or I at least know how to find someone who can. I don’t know how to fix this, and I certainly don’t have a guy for this. I’m gonna keep on soldiering on until I figure it out or I guess I’ll die trying, but I really don’t know what my path forward from here is going to be. And if I need some time to figure this shit out. I certainly won’t think less of anyone who needs the same. And everyone deals with different kinds of stresses differently and more or less successfully than anyone else. Despite the crazy shit I’ve managed to deal with, there’s other more mundane situations that some people can handle just fine that I can’t hack. Put me in a regular office environment with reports, paperwork, deadlines and presentations, and I’d probably be burned out in a week. It’s like the old saying about trying to judge a fish by its ability to climb trees. It’s ok to not be ok right now, honestly I think anyone who says they’re ok right now is either faking it or a psychopath. Don’t be afraid to ask for help, if you have it in you, try to check in on others to make sure they’re doing ok and getting what they need too. The only way we’re getting through this is together.

My Turnip Jack O'Lanterns - Lemmy.World

[QUESTION] What are some of your favorite spicy/super flavorful dishes? - Lemmy.World

Looking for some inspiration, my wife’s out of town this week babysitting he grandmother with dementia, so she’s been eating a lot of very bland, old-white-lady-palate-approved meals (her grandmother once described some jarred vodka sauce as being “too spicy”) We’re both pretty adventurous eaters and spice-lovers, and I know it’s driving her mad by now, so I figured I’d welcome her home in a couple days with a dinner full of all the biggest flavor bombs I can find Help me light her taste buds on fire, decimated my spice cabinet, and make my toilet tremble in fear of what is to come.

What are your favorite upscale places to go and things to do in or around the city? - Lemmy.World

The wife and I have been looking for a good excuse to dress to the nines and have a fancy night out So what do you got for me, Philly? Fancy restaurants, swanky cocktail bars, jazz clubs, the opera, black tie galas, anywhere we’re not gonna be “those overdressed weirdos” if we show up in a nice suit and fancy dress.

Friend had a baby and is having a rough time, red does not seem to understand what "postpartum" means - Lemmy.World