May and MonteFrom Facebook. If someone does these 5 things, they are using you. 1. they reach out Only when they need something no contact. 2. they rarely reciprocate. effort flows one way. 3. They disappear after getting help. gratitude is temporary 4. They guilt you into helping. Manipulation over respect. 5. They ignore your needs. Utility replaces care.
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Welcome to my little piece of insanity. Never know what I may discuss on this platform. My interest are varied, from sports to singing, to reading, broadway musicals and so much more. If you're a friend feel free to stick around, but if you're a pretender, take the crap elsewhere. I have no time for you any longer. I also direct you to my primary account @MayDay
From Facebook. I don’t know about you, but I’m too old for nonsense in my friendships.
I don’t have the energy for bad vibes, senseless drama, or this “do they like me today? Are we good for now? back and forth.
I’m giving too much to too many other areas to carry the entire weight of a friendship all by myself and I just really don’t have the mental capacity to read anyone’s mind or to convince them to like me.
I have to be myself. I don’t have the bandwidth to play pretend. Either you choose me or you don’t and it’s okay either way.
I’ve given this quite a bit of thought and at this point in my life, I am really looking for three things in my friendships:
1. Honesty
2. An overall positive, encouraging atmosphere
3. Safety
That’s really it for me.
Will you tell me the truth? Will things be said to my face instead of discussed behind my back? Can I trust you? Can you trust me? Can we be vulnerable? Can we lift each other up and help each other grow?
Are you good for my heart and am I good for yours?
Can we do life together?
With an abundance of gratitude, an abundance of grace, and an abundance of love.
I don’t need much anymore. I don’t need many friends, I need the right friends. Life is hard enough without surrounding yourself with the wrong people.
Ok, this is seriously pissing me off. I can't figure out what I'm missing. so calling out any sighted or blind parents out there that have nintendo switches for their kids and use the very annoying parental control app. I have the family expansion pack and I can't figure out what needs to be done so that my kids can access it. Whenever they open it, it doesn't even notify me that they are attempting to open it so that I can allow the app on the white list. Any suggestions? Help is definitely appreciated!
Good morning everyone. For all of those that have playstations, can you let me know what accessible games you have tried out and played? I have my station on the way and making a list so that way I remember what to look for once it gets here. Thanks. Thanks to another friend I already have Last of Us on my list and got to hear them play it. So, any others, please let me know, :)
JamminJerryit is time once again for Kalvin Cuteness! This was not only cute, but how it was said was really funny! This is taken from a phone call that happened during @MayDay break at work. just listen to not only what Kalvin says after may said he could beat her up, but how he says it. like I said too cute, and funny at the same time. As you will hear, May and I both thought this was toot worthy.
Happy New Year to all! Now how long wil it take to remember that it's 2026 and no longer 2025? This year my don't give a damn is broke and will not be repaired. People who pretend they are a friend and only contact me when they want something will be left behind. So, here's to a better 2026 once this damn fucking headache of mine goes away! 1 week and working on 4 days.
From Facebook and so very true. Sometimes the people that you help the most are the ones who hurt you the worst. It’s a hard truth to accept, especially when your intentions were pure. You show up for them, you listen when no one else does, you give your time, your energy, and most importantly you trusted them. You never helped them because you expected something in return, you helped them because that’s who you genuinely are as a person. And yet, when the hurt comes, it cuts deeper than anything else. And it hurts even more because you never see it coming. You believed that kindness would be met with care, that loyalty would be respected. When it isn’t, you start questioning yourself. Was I too much .... Too available .... Too trusting ....
The pain doesn’t just come from what they did, it comes from realizing that your effort wasn’t valued the way you hoped. But this experience doesn’t mean helping others is a mistake. It means boundaries matter. It means not everyone deserves the same level of access to your heart. Some people take without knowing how to give, and that’s not your fault. Helping others is still a strength. Compassion is still powerful. The lesson isn’t to stop caring, it’s to care wisely. Protect your energy, learn who truly appreciates it, and remember that being kind should never ..... require you to be hurt in return.
The pain doesn’t just come from what they did, it comes from realizing that your effort wasn’t valued the way you hoped. But this experience doesn’t mean helping others is a mistake. It means boundaries matter. It means not everyone deserves the same level of access to your heart. Some people take without knowing how to give, and that’s not your fault. Helping others is still a strength. Compassion is still powerful. The lesson isn’t to stop caring, it’s to care wisely. Protect your energy, learn who truly appreciates it, and remember that being kind should never ..... require you to be hurt in return.
Welcome everyone! Whew, do I still have some #ChaosBus fans out there? I haven't forgotten about you honest. In the new year the bus will be back on the road and considering being on Sundays. Now that life is working itself back out it's time to bring back the chaos. It's ben missing from my life for way too long and I mean the music chaos, not life chaos, lol. If you're still out there please stay tuned for further updates!
Whew, my boys are growing up so fast! Today my awesome little guy #Kalvin is now 7. Can you believe that! where did the time go?
Amusing moment for today. Jaydon, Happy birthday to you! LD Monte, starts to sing along. erm, what? I now have a singing dog. Guess he didn't want to be left out of the song. #Kalvin #BirthdayMoments