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Question: should I warm up homemade fruit cake?

https://lemmy.world/post/40673159

Question: should I warm up homemade fruit cake? - Lemmy.World

TL;DR, should I, and if so then how should I, warm it up? *** I’m poor, been through a rough time. Luckily, I have some very generous food banks in the area. One of which I’ve gone to for a while now. Some people know there know me, and things have been in a bit of an uptick in my life lately. And that hasn’t gone unnoticed either. I’ve been in a significantly better mood and more, approachable, I guess? One of the funny little results of that, is that they’ve been giving me more. I give away a bunch of the stuff I get that I don’t need myself even in the hostel I’m staying at. This foodbank closes for a few weeks for Christmas/New Years. They gave out a bit more than usual to all, but someone went a bit further. They made individual fruit cakes. Only seven so I’m told. And the staff gave them away to their “favourites”. I’m not super big into favouritism but, well. They gave me one. Even declined it at first but gave in. Now, the only time I’ve had fruit cake I’ve hated it. But it was the dry store-bought crap. This cake? Looks amazing. Whole pecans and a dollop of caramel on the top. In this nice little hard-foil container and plastic-wrapped inside as well. Given all the prep and thought and care that went into it, I have to try it. (And they made a point of wanting to know what I think of it since they know I was a bit hesitant in the first place.) But for the life of me I am wondering the most inane question. Should I warm it up? Typically if I want a warm muffin/pastry I just put it in the microwave for 10-15 seconds. If I really want to go out of my way I might wrap something in foil and throw it in an oven/toaster-oven. Or for pizza I’ll put it in frying pan and cover it on low if it’s really good pizza and I want to warm up the crust so it’s “just right” rather than microwaving it into a soggy mess. (Which I will happily do if time is an issue and it’s cheap pizza.) But in this case, I feel like I should do it by the best method possible. If I even should? Apparently I’m supposed to enjoy it with a cup of coffee as well. So it may turn into breakfast for a few days if I like it.

Have you ever tried to "acquire" a taste? (Ie. spent time eating/imbibing something you didn't like at first to start to enjoy it.)

https://lemmy.world/post/40672568

Have you ever tried to "acquire" a taste? (Ie. spent time eating/imbibing something you didn't like at first to start to enjoy it.) - Lemmy.World

Couple examples from personal experience: Spicy Food I didn’t like spicy food for a (relatively) long time until I was 25. 2/4 of my roommates did. We’d order two pizzas, one spicy and one not. But the asshats who liked spicy would eat half the non-spicy pizza first knowing the other one was safe from us. Well… we’d see about that! I bought a jar of pickled little yellow banana peppers. At first all I could manage was a tiny little bit of one. But I had that tiny little bite every evening, every day. Eventually my tolerance grew until I was eating a whole one, then multiples. In a few weeks I realized I was crunching through them and loving it. (Didn’t love the first time I overindulged and found out what goes in can still burn going out, oof, lol.) *** Beer First time I had beer I did the movie-style stereotypical spit-take. Tasted like something I’d never want again. I drank when I was 18-19yrs old but it was usually Smirnoff Ice or some other “bitch-pop” as was said at the time by those around me. When I was in my early 20s I supervised for a company that had us do a lot of traveling. Particularly three months of the year I was in a hotel more than at home. There was a consistent crew of people who lived in a town nearby that I saw fairly frequently for those three months but not too often elsewise. As I said I was in my early 20s, 21-23ish. And they were in their late 20s to mid thirties. They were inveterate drinkers, and they loved beer. And they undertook a self-imposed mission to teach me to love beer too. Them being older and me being impressionable, I went with it. Every evening after work we’d hit up the local pub and I’d order three beers, based off their recommendations. One was an inveterate drinker as mentioned, the other a mid-thirties redheaded British woman I grew rather fond of and who was rather fond of me, along with some other crew. Basically, people who knew beer and in the case of the brit, someone who I would’ve listened to for a few reasons. Didn’t take too long but I certainly “acquired” a taste for it. Eventually acquiring my own preferences to the point I was recommending them ideas.

Why do you personally hate Christmas?

https://lemmy.world/post/40632576

Why do you personally hate Christmas? - Lemmy.World

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/40632364 [https://lemmy.world/post/40632364] > For those that can’t stand this time of the year, my misery seeks company. What does it for you? > > *** > > For me: aside from the usual family stuff: > > I worked front-end in a post office back when that meant a line-up before I opened the doors to the end of the day when I had to inform the line-up that was still out the door that, yes, I was going to close on time. (Some didn’t take that well. For me it was just another Tuesday…) > > It meant a lot of work with little thanks and I had to listen to the same shitty Xmas playlist over and over all day. > > *** > > Edit/PS: The quick downvote sells it. Perfection. chefs kiss

Why do you personally hate Christmas?

https://lemmy.world/post/40632364

Why do you personally hate Christmas? - Lemmy.World

For those that can’t stand this time of the year, my misery seeks company. What does it for you? *** For me: aside from the usual family stuff: I worked front-end in a post office back when that meant a line-up before I opened the doors to the end of the day when I had to inform the line-up that was still out the door that, yes, I was going to close on time. (Some didn’t take that well. For me it was just another Tuesday…) It meant a lot of work with little thanks and I had to listen to the same shitty Xmas playlist over and over all day.

Thoughts on The Mighty Nein S1?

https://lemmy.world/post/40628196

Thoughts on The Mighty Nein S1? - Lemmy.World

Last episode of the season came out early, FYI. Think I’m a day late in fact. Never watched the Critical Role campaigns myself, just watched most of Vox Mach and now this. (No spoilers for S2 if you’ve watched the campaign I’m presuming this is based off of, please.) *** Overall I’d say that while many of my opinions are mixed I still really enjoyed it. (Keep that in mind as you continue if you loved it, I dig into it a fair bit. But it was a good ride.) I’d say I liked this more than what I’ve seen of Vox Machina, the characters had greater nuance. Albeit they had a formulaic feel to them. Each has a specific kind of conflict within themselves and a disadvantage of some type to overcome. (Like a phobia.) It makes for good characterization but they all have “one of each” which makes them a bit too much of the same for me. I like variation in that regard. Particularly when they’re all models of comparison to the others it starts to get a bit obvious and as I said, formulaic. Characters don’t need a predetermined conflict for character-development. As if the GM gave them character notes they had to fill in, rather than making a character themselves. *** Animation was at times stellar and gorgeous, but there were some inconsistencies. The sickle moon having stars in its dark portion in one scene, then being portrayed as a full sphere with no stars visible in it in another is a notable example. (Something I’ve learned to keep an eye out for in general when gauging animated shows. Sort of an easy “litmus test”.) *** Some of the voice acting, particularly outside the main cast was amazing. I couldn’t tell who many of them were. Mark Strong in particular didn’t sound like Mark Strong at all to me. Had no clue Felicia Day was in there either until I looked it up. Nathan Fillion however, was immediately recognizable lol. So was Ming-Na Wen. Felt like a missed opportunity for them to get a bit out-there, oh well. The party VAs did a pretty good job but there were definitely some, “I am listening to Slightly-Not-Vox-Machina” moments as well. Still, very good voice acting in there. Nott notably. *** Speaking of Nott, Nott (no comma) the Brave was my favourite by a considerable margin, really loved her. Great character, phenomenal voice acting. And I liked the duo of Caleb/Bren and Nott’s friendship. She was a real highlight of the show for me. *** Bren as a character was alright but only alright. His involvement as a bit of a backbone to the story was more interesting than his characterization to me though. Voice acting was good but not great. (Meant literally, it was good. It just didn’t hit “greatness” to me like Nott’s did. But entirely alright.) Thought I’d add here that I found his Volstrucker friends/former-lovers Astrid and Eadwulf great secondary antagonists. They did a lot using fairly little. Weren’t over-the-top evil, having some shades of grey to them. As an example, I appreciated that they gave a quick shot of Astrid taking Beauregard’s flirtatious compliments to heart in the last ep. Their characters could’ve been considerably shallower. *** Fjord, kind of “meh” towards his characterization with his weird squiggly-eyed-Cthulhu providing most of the interest. Didn’t have many feelings towards the early Fjord+Jester romance either. *** Jester: infectious optimism was nice but a bit too much at times. Traveler mystery was okay as an idea but I mean, she got her powers from somewhere, no? The “imaginary friend” bit felt a tad forced at times as a result. Jester’s literal “leap of faith” in the last ep was great though. *** The Tiefling Circus performer (of apparently many names) Molly, fun character but having no memory felt a bit too “hand-wavy” at times. Nice tool to use for the GM but, eh… not my personal cup of tea in a character. Still curious to see where it goes. Liked him as a character though, it should be said. (Aside from the macguffin.) *** Beauregard: Eh, not much to say here really. Alright, moved the plot forward a couple times earlier on. Just, pretty basic. Not bad, but not much to say. /shrug *** Essek and Orphan Maker, both kinda weak to me. Essek, mommy issues. Meh. Sad you had to kill her, bit odd you had to in the first place. Hoping for more next season but as it stands, low expectations. Orphan Maker. More curious about the god/being behind her than the character herself so far. *** S1 as a whole, pretty good. Mind, I’m a bit disinterested in the Beacon as this end-all-be-all overpowered contrivance. Hoping there is indeed more to it than seems. Bit of allusion that it could be so, we’ll see? I thought the Beacon was actually a fake in the last ep there. The one in the glass Nott melted I mean. I noticed it was in a glass-housing instead of on that elaborate tri-bar pedestal and got pretty suspicious that Ikithon had made a dupe. (Until he ordered his Volstrucker duo to capture it. Then when Orphan-maker got zapped it seemed pretty obvious it’s the real deal.) Glad there seems to be an S2 slated albeit doesn’t seem confirmed yet? Quite the bloody cliffhanger. *** You?

"Kids" Shows you like as an adult?

https://lemmy.world/post/40583216

"Kids" Shows you like as an adult? - Lemmy.World

“Kids” in quotations because sometimes “kids” shows aren’t really just for children, judging by their nuanced jokes. *** Could be old, could be new. I like a lot, two that stand out lately are Star Wars: Skeleton Crew, and Star Trek: Prodigy. Going back a ways, Reboot and Beast Wars. (Reboot, upon relatively recent revisit earlier this year, has a few jokes that I certainly wouldn’t have gotten as a kid nor even as a teen.) You?

Last-minute Xmas Gift Ideas for me (very poor) to get my aunt+family (very well off) who have been helping me out during a very rough time?

https://lemmy.world/post/40573071

Last-minute Xmas Gift Ideas for me (very poor) to get my aunt+family (very well off) who have been helping me out during a very rough time? - Lemmy.World

I hate Christmas, I really do. I don’t talk to most of my MAGA family and I worked front-end in a post office. So in general it’s just all shite to me. However, in the past couple months I reached out to my aunt who isn’t a diehard MAGA for help to get out of a really shitty situation. And surprisingly, she’s helped me a tonne. Now I’m in contact with her at least every couple days and we go out for breakfast and stuff. Now, usually I spend Xmas alone or with my partner. Don’t have a partner right now, and I find myself invited to my aunt’s for Xmas. And I kind of feel the need to go. (I originally was going to cancel saying I’m feeling sick but have decided not to do that.) I’d like to get them some cheap gifts despite having not a lot of money. I don’t just want to show up empty handed even if that’d be okay. I can spare a bit. So, any ideas? *** PS: I have one idea for her, which will probably be a plant since I know she likes plants and gardening. But for the uncle and cousin+ his partner I kind of have no clue. Under different circumstances I might do some art but I moved with very little and don’t have any art supplies which would be more expensive then the gifts at this point. So any art suggestions while appreciated are kind of out for now.

[Be Honest] Do you only read the title before replying?

https://lemmy.world/post/40493902

[Be Honest] Do you only read the title before replying? - Lemmy.World

I usually add some useful context in the post-body of the posts I make. Sometimes, it’s rather apparent when someone replies (typically antagonistically) without realizing that I’ve already addressed their concern in the body of the post that they decided not to read. *** Strive to be more than a knee-jerk reaction. - me, 20+ years ago.

As an example, steel before 1940s didn’t have minuscule traces of atmospheric radiation in it.

Research conducted after the atmosphere had increased radiation would be different to research conducted after, in that vein.

Scavenging WW1 wrecks for non-contaminated steel for use in things like medical equipment is still ongoing, as an example.

Time can certainly change the answer to a question without any input from the individual user.

"Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results" is impossible, because time changes whenever we try to do the same thing.

https://lemmy.world/post/40493049

"Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results" is impossible, because time changes whenever we try to do the same thing. - Lemmy.World

You can never really do the same thing twice. Time is always moving forward and cannot be replicated. (Barring futuristic time-travel tech.)