Although I am indeed Mark, there is another Mark whose DNA lives inside me.

This DNA belongs to the man that initiated me into the world of kink and BDSM. He is the man who dug deep into my insides and ran them inside out. He is the man that I called SIR.

https://daddyscruff1.blogspot.com/2025/08/marks-dna-inside-of-me-part-1.html

The beards, the leather, the overall expectation of masculine gender “normality” in the gay kink world. It is an overall vibe that basically governs the gay bdsm experience.

But there is much more that is just as relevant and present but not often celebrate in our queer circles.

My post touches on the capacity to celebrate the Fem energy as well as Masc.

https://daddyscruff1.blogspot.com/2024/08/masculine-feminine-energy.html

Time

I have reconciled with nature and time; that as I age so does my hair color.
Like Whitney would say, “It’s not right. But it’s okay.”