Likewise. I’ve had somewhat of a rude awakening and culture shock here.

In what situations?

Nothing I said had any sexual overtones at all. The fact that your mind went to sex and then rape says a whole lot more about you than me.

Voyager was the best app I found during my brief stint on iOS.

Voyager shows it even if you don’t click their username on Android. It won’t show it for users on the same instance as you.

You can do what you’re hoping to do. There aren’t “server wars” but there are a few instances that are known to have users with extreme tanky views. Many servers have defederated from lemmygrad, and hexbear.net. There are a lot of users with similar viewpoints on lemmy.ml, but they tend to be less extreme. Everything else is pretty normal, albeit heavily left leaning.

OP, don’t go to lemmy.ml unless you’re a hardcore tanky.

It also still displays split voting scores, when many apps don’t. Combined scores really skew the perception of what’s really going on.

Unfortunately Jerboa isn’t a great app. Voyager has worked well for me.

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