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In so many situations, weāre almost conditioned to want to say āthis. This is how youāre supposed to handle this situationā
Itās safe. Comforting. Like, if all else falls apart, I know how to handle this one thing.
Hereās the thing that sucks: those times are limited in life.
āSometimesā accounts for SO much more of our lives than the things we know we can rely on, so that constant change can really try us.
I both adore and LOATHE change, in that it seems just as Iām learning the navigation of something, *bam*.
Change.
āSometimesā.
I like that word. Itās very versatile and kinda fits just right, in a lot of situations.
Itās not permanent. Leaves lots of room for option, varietyā¦the unexpected.
I also like it because itās a good way to convey that things can change.
And they will.
I donāt know if Iāve explained this here, but Iām a non-binary trans woman.
Whatās that mean to me?
My gender expression is definitely that of a trans woman. That feels like home.
And I no longer can say I believe in just a binary system, as I know entirely too many other people that identify differently than two standard genders.
To me, identifying as binary would be a denial of reality.
Now, thatās SURE to make the anti-āwokeā crowd furious, thatāsā¦just me.
Make sense?
Transgender Together shared a post on Instagram: "Language matters! Trans and gender-diverse communities face unique violence that should not be watered down nor generalized to all LGBTQ+ people. - EDIT: To add some nuance here and hopefully clarify a few points, this post is not saying that only trans folks are impacted by anti-trans prejudice and cissexism. That could not be further from the truth. In reality, everyoneā regardless of genderā is negatively affected by efforts to enforce cis standards and the gender binary, including (and oftentimes especially) intersex folks, women, gender nonconforming people, and nonbinary people who may or may not also be trans. Instead, the goal of this post is to highlight the importance of naming when policies, beliefs, and actions are driven specifically by cissexism and/ or a hatred of transness and gender diversity. Because so long as we frame the motivations behind these decisions as āanti-LGBT,ā we will continue to see cis, gender-conforming LGB individuals centered in how the issues are addressedā almost always at the expense of trans, nonbinary, intersex, and other gender-diverse folks who are the primary targets (and who are suffering the brunt of the violence and victimization as a result). - [IMAGE DESCRIPTION: A rainbow background with a black rectangle in the center. The text in the rectangle says, "Don't say 'LGBT' if what you mean is 'trans.'" At the bottom is small text that says, "@transgender_together." The second slide has the same background with text that says, "Bathroom bills are not anti-LGBT. They are anti-trans. Restrictive I.D. laws are not anti-LGBT. They are anti-trans. Attacks on gender-affirming care are not anti-LGBT. They are anti-trans. Cissexist jokes are not anti-LGBT. They are anti-trans. Sports participation bans are not anti-LGBT. They are anti-trans." The final slide has text that says, "If we fail to recognize and name anti-trans prejudice and cissexism when we encounter them, we will continually fail to change the oppression that gender-diverse people face each day."]". Follow their account to see 309 posts.
Lol I got food poisoning from pizza I ordered this afternoon š
Like, if I donāt laugh about the luck Iāve recently had, Iād just be a bawling mess by now.
Time for water, rest and more rest.
Is this like your thing? You emotionally manipulate people, move into their lives, gain whatever kind of social situation you can from it, tweet out some victim blaming advice, and then move onto the next poor sap?
You realize we have receipts for every single thing, right?