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I am an actual recluse but I have a horny kinkster hidden inside of me thatโ€™s just begging to be let out! NSFW ๐Ÿ”ž 18+ only
I am33 y.o. gay, cub/otter, bottom/versatile
Iโ€™m intoBears, cubs, beards, fisting, (self) sucking, piss, pretty much everything
I likeVideo games (playing and creating), music (listening/writing/playing), only being awake when the sun is down
@cassandre_sucreries well I, for one, am very glad you found the confidence to share your beautiful body, and hope you will continue to feel confident and sexy. I know how antidepressants can dampen your sex drive and hope some day I can stop taking mine (I have high hopes for psilocybin). I'm glad you found your way here and hope you continue to feel welcomed and safe to share as much of yourself as you want. Hugs! ๐Ÿค—
@reddywhp I'm going camping in Indiana next month, I wonder if we will be having a similar experience... Hope you have lots of fun, and have some good stories to share!
@garak some high quality manufacturers say their silicone toys are compatible with silicon based lube, but they have to use 100% platinum-cured silicone. There are so many lube manufacturers that they can't promise every silicon lube will be safe, but you can always test it out by putting a drop of lube on the underside of the toy overnight and see if it causes any adverse reactions. I still just use water based lube to be safe though.

What they've got going on under their clothes is no one's business but theirs, their doctors', and sexual partners'. It's not your business, not my business, and certainly not the government's business.

Any government that tries to ban gender-affirming care is saying that they know better than the healthcare professionals, psychologists, and the people themselves, what they need and what's good for them, and that's the most dangerous thing a government can ever believe.

Transphobes and trans critics seem to think the idea of gender is becoming too complicated, but actually they're the ones making it complicated and it's really quite simple, so simple that it can be summed up in a single rule: treat others the way they want to be treated.

There's no guessing or mind-reading required; when someone behaves and dresses in a certain way, they're just asking you to treat them the same way you would treat anyone who behaves and dresses that way.

@Truevader when you say "experience" do you mean as a psychiatrist or as a patient? Both can offer different perspectives and unique insights, but one side may be better suited for your particular needs.
This weekend I finally got to experience a bathhouse for the first time! I went with my boyfriend and we were both really nervous since we'd never been to one, but we bumped into a friendly outgoing bear whom my bf had met with before, and he helped us get more relaxed and showed us around. We didn't go wild, but played with a couple of guys and ended up having a really nice time. My favorite part was getting a crowd of guys watching as the bear fisted and fucked me.
I haven't contributed to a #tummytuesday for a while, so here's an update! I think it even grew a little bit during the holidays, though that might just be wishful thinking.
@reddywhp I've helped a couple guys to take a fist for the first time and I would love to give you that experience too. I wouldn't say I'm particularly experienced, but I have been fisting my own hole for just over a decade and have relatively small hands so maybe I could get you there. ๐Ÿ˜‰
@bootblackcub I've always wanted to go to one! I think I still need more practice doing things like "leaving the house" and "being around people" first though. But I'm getting there!