To be honest... I struggle at times to make sense of how people perceive us.
There are those who argue Trans Women are Women. I personally don't see things that way, which puts me at odds with 'my community' in a large sense.
I've felt transparency and allowing us to be open as we are, proud of being trans is a better move.
Forcing us to conform and pretend we are 100% women post transition seems to further our invisibility, our history and our beauty as we are.