The next person to say "Not all are men are..." is getting slapped ! Like cool you are decent human being but unless you are actively doing your part to combat the oppressive systems that you benefit off of don't @ me when I point out the problems. Because rather than figuring out of trying to fix it you are making it about you which is why I didn't stutter when I said men are trash ! I said it for a reason and don't need to justify myself
@tamallez (slap totally earned)
@joshg slap will be withheld but I like the way you put the warning though !
but I feel like regardless if they are fully aware of it they know of it enough in their day to day interactions to see its impacts

@tamallez I want to agree with you, but I feel less confident that guys will see beyond their own problems. That toxic masculinity doesn't do much to encourage empathy. 😒

We *can* do it and *should* be held accountable though!