Santos 🍊It's crazy how we all have issues since childhood and the only way to sort them in some way and find comfort from others is on a website. Even when people near us went through the same shit. Society fucks us in a way we can't even communicate about being fucked.
Prof. Dominic ☭@santosbullshit So true. I have a hard time opening up to friends irl. But comrades online I met 5 minutes ago, you'd think they were lifelong friends or my psychologist the way I open up lol.
@domzi_ everytime I talk to a friend it's like "do they give a fuck about my problems or am I just being annoying af?".
@santosbullshit I worry about that too. I sometimes think I have to keep things to myself because I've already unloaded so much on them. But it's ironic because I would feel that way about them. I'm like 'come to me with all your problems'.
@domzi_ I've learned to really talk to myself. Now I'm almost always certain that nobody would solve a given problem or issue for me, I do the emotional labor by myself. I've repressed these communication tools to such degree that I don't discuss shit like that. I don't know whether if that's good or not, it's just what it is at this point.
@santosbullshit I did that a lot growing up so I do that fairly often. It just really depends.
@domzi_ It's feels like healthy practice for me idk.