This: https://mastodon.social/users/vahnj/updates/1127551

If you make a racist joke "ironically", and you can "see how that could be taken as offensive", it's racist and you should pack that shit in immediately.

I've had one friend leave here because of this.

Your "ironic" racist pun that seems trivial to you is shit some have to confront day in, day out their whole lives. Ironic racism+effects are indistinguishable from the real thing. Pack it in.

@Nach Is the friend who left jp? Do you know why he left instead of just blocking? Did he perceive it as systematic? He addressed me about other things before, and I've listened to his input, but he never told me about his departure.