Don't forget this missive https://mastodon.social/media/sDlIqMhQ-rqkK9O_w3A
what's funny about this is that someone told me this once to CONSOLE me
like, as far as I can tell, they really thought it was consoling that people do terrible shit for "good reasons" in their mind
as if somehow their reasons, not their actions, were what injure and distress me
(I blocked them as soon as I figured they weren't wondering if I was going to block them, because that's precisely the kind of person who scares the daylights out of me.)